Matchmaking and personal development services in one... Want to go on a date? If you said yes, great, this is the place for you. Let us set you up on a date. We service the NYC, Northern NJ, and Long Island areas for singles looking to go on a date. We help both relationship seekers and casual night out seekers.

The way it works is:
- You join.
- We set up a time to speak over the phone or meet in person. It takes me a long time, months sometimes, to schedule a phone call, so you are definitely better off signing up for an event or emailing me requesting a phone call...
- We ask you a series of questions and then have a general conversation with you to discover what you are like. We encourage you to join one of our upcoming group events or scheduling a One On One with me so we can meet in person and we can be able to set you up on a date. The general goal is for me to be able to get to know you so I can feel good about setting you up on a date with another good person.
- We keep you on file and contact you once we determine which other member (or non-member) would be a good fit for you to go on a date with. (We have non-meetup members from which we may match you up with as well.)
- We set up a time, date, and place for you and your date to meet.
- The two of you meet at the date location and introduce yourselves to each other. (you can take care of the planning yourself if you prefer.)
- Then we contact each of you seperately after the date to go over how it went.
- We report back to you afterwards to let you know if your date would like to see you again.
- The rest is up to you to go forward with the potential relationship or not.

If you are not contacted right away, please be patient. I export all members from the newly formed group to a spreadsheet and sort it first by date of joining the group and then by member ID number. That is the order by which you will be contacted. Believe me, the quicker way to get a phone call with me would be by request by you. I call anyone back ASAP who sends me their number and a request to speak!

Contact us for further information if you like.

-- Please do not send flirty greetings to a bunch of different members. Flirting is fun and healthy, but this group is for those who would like to be set up on dates, not for those looking to flirt. Doing so will require me to remove you from the group. Wait for your set up and then you can flirt with your date.

-- Please let me know if anyone sends you any direct emails from this group that you are not comfortable with. This group is for the purpose of being set up on a date, not asking each other out. If I find out that there are offensive emails being sent, I will investigate and you may be removed from the group.

-- I will only set up members of this group that I have met. I prescreen all daters. Therefore, if you cannot attend one of our events, you will need to arrange with me a time that we can meet outside of an event.

-- This group and my efforts with it is for both my enjoyment and emotional benefit as it is for your's. I hope that all members can treat this with respect, maturity, and only take advantage of it for the members' and your wellbeing.

-- If anyone feels that they are too shy to attend an event, let me know.

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- In addition to one on one dating, we also, from time to time, have:
-- open functions for all to attend and get to know each other in a laid back atmosphere.
-- journal get togethers for group writing activities that help you learn more about yourselves.
-- lectures from dating gurus.
-- and we are open to suggestions from our members for other activities.

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****Disclaimer: Membership with this meetup does not guarantee you a date. Membership with this meetup does not guarantee that you will meet your perfect match. I set people up on dates because I enjoy doing it.****
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