Our group is different than many. One reason we have so many activities is because we allow each of our assistant organizers to take the initiative to set up their own "meetups" Sometimes we have as many as 4 on one day. Our members shouldn't feel that they should attend any or all all of them. It's about CHOICE. Look at what we offer and do what suits you. Yes, each assistant organizer would love for you to attend the event they post. But YOU should attend the ones that are most convenient for you and suit YOUR need and desires. Never, Never feel like you are being pressured. The best way to know about a group is to see what it's people say about it, what it does and who we are Here's our calendar Past and present http://singles.meetup.com/2177/calendar/ Our members http://singles.meetup.com/2177/members/?sor... What people say about us http://singles.meetup.com/2177/about/commen... Intelligent, attractive, fabulous men & women 30s to 60s in a relaxed, no pressure environment We create social events, outings, parties, trips, vacations and gatherings where good men and women can meet and get to know each other Shy in social situations? DO NOT WORRY. Everyone gets introduced to everyone. Our organizers know how to bring people together and make them feel like old friends LOOKING FOR LOVE? We'll introduce you to the great guy/gal across the room. No tension. No apprehension. No pressure Want to meet a particular member? No problem. We know them. Just walk up to one of us and ask for an introduction. It will be as easy as "Hi Angelina, I'd like you to meet Brad, a new member, can you introduce him to everyone" "YOU" now have a new friend, and soon it may be your pleasure to introduce newcomers. Join us!