This is a support group for anyone who’s been victimized and hurt by Betrayal, Abuse or Infidelity. This group will focus on how to begin healing from the emotional and or physical abuse endured and learning how to recognize the signs , forms and variations of Betrayal, Abuse and Infidelity. We will get through the pain, the hurt and the depression by, talking, listening, laughing, recognizing, supporting and educating one another, or anything else we may think of to do, so that we are no longer and or ever victimized again. Accepting unacceptable behaviors. is self destructive! Stop the demo!! Lets work together on repairing and rebuilding the following;
• Our Self Esteem
• Our Self Confidence
• Our Self Love
•Our Self Respect
ARE YOU AWARE OF SELF? SELF AWARENESS IS A PATHWAY TO HAPPINESS..
THE DEFINITION OF SELF AWARENESS READS,
Self Awareness is having a clear perception of your personality, including strengths, weaknesses, thoughts, beliefs, motivation, and emotions. Self Awareness allows you to understand other people, how they perceive you, your attitude and your responses to them in the moment.
I started this group because I myself am a victim of abuse and I am healing my way through it. I've been a victim of two types of sexual abuse, Child Molestation and Rape. Also stalking, domestic violence and also hurt by infidelity. Needless to say as a result I have suffered many years of emotional abuse. Unfortunately it tool me years to recognize it and even longer to face and address it. I ignored warning signs. I believed many untruths and accepted hurtful disrespectful behaviors.
I also was unaware of self and lacked the ability to love myself, which ultimately impaired my judgement of character in others, in making good sound decisions, in taking control of my life and better care of myself. FEAR, EMBARRASSMENT, ANGER, DEPRESSION, SHAME and IGNORANCE are all emotions that played a major ROLE in why I did not talk about my abuse, why I hid it from everyone for years, why I did not seek out help, and why I've had very unhealthy relationships with men and unhealthy friendships throughout my life.
Fast forward to right now in my life, I am still working very hard at Self Awareness, Self Love, Recognition of Abuse, and the pursuit of happiness which seems like a simple thing to obtain. I have realized that I have never actually been happy.... Yes I have experienced happy moments in time, but that time was all in-caged by a clock that ticked and chimed abuse often. I have stopped faking happiness and embraced my reality, and at first I did not know what to feel, or how to feel, I was numb. I faked happiness and covered up things in my life and my emotions for so long, that I did not know how to BE.. let alone how to be ME..
BETRAYAL, ABUSE & INFIDELITY of any kind is wrong and should not be ACCEPTED or EXPECTED to be tolerated from anyone. It does not matter if you were victimized in the past, going through it right now or think you may be in danger of it. Please do not hesitate to join "BAIM" Betrayal, Abuse & Infidelity Meetup, for support. All are welcome regardless of gender, race, sexual orientation or creed. “The act or process of being victimized or becoming a victim knows no prejudice"