In many years of attending bi/queer/fluid/pan discussion groups, we keep hearing the same thing over and over again: "I wish there was a 'Bi Bar' where you could go and be social and just *be*, without have to worry about being called strange for checking out both boys and girls." In the absence of a real bar like that, let's meet up monthly at various San Diego venues and turn those places into a guerrilla Bi Bar, at least for one night.
We're calling it Bi Bar 'cause that's short and sorta catchy but we're totally accepting of however people choose to self-identify. If you are a "no labels" kinda person or if you like calling yourself bi, queer, pan, fluid, straight - or anything else - that's great.
This is all about creating a non-judgmental, positive, safe space to meet cool peeps, have a drink, and have FUN!! Let's get together and celebrate the positive, fun aspects of being able to love people no matter what their gender is... :-)
PS: We're aiming to make Bi Bar an ethnically diverse, trans-friendly, poly-friendly, kink-friendly, and size-accepting community. Please be cool with that.