"Boys are attracted to girls and girls are attracted to boys." If you express your gender identity exclusively through the boi/grrl sexual dynamic, then a Butch/Femme Meetup Group is for you. The group is open to all queer-identified women of all ages who are Butches (present and live masculine on the spectrum) and Femmes (present and live feminine on the spectrum), and those who celebrate and nurture the Butch/Femme way of life. If you are unsure if you are Butch or Femme, come to one Meetup and you will probably have your answer. The group will meet monthly for discussion, discovery, and dialogue. Activities as planned. Every approved member is an Event Organizer who can schedule Meetups for the entire Group.

We're 174 Butches and Femmes

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Upcoming Meetups

  • Saturday, September 19, 2015 6:00 PM

    Dinner in Columbia, MD

    2 Butches and Femmes attending
  • Friday, September 25, 2015 7:00 PM

    Maryland Gathering!

    6 Butches and Femmes attending
Founded Aug 17, 2014
  • Butches and Femmes 174
  • Upcoming Meetups 2
  • Past Meetups 22

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