Imagine yourself on an all gay men's "Freestyle" cruise with no itinerary, just the sunshine, a drink or two, good strong intelligent conversation and hopefully eye candy that is as sweet to you as you desire!. And so we have Casual Gay Affairs a meetup for gay men of all ages to enjoy one another's company in a non-sexually based, welcoming atmosphere.

This group is not focused on sex, but rather the unique communication that goes on when you get two or more gay men talking, laughing and enjoying each others company.
Shhhh! We must be discrete - Some Casual Affairs are well planned while others are spur of the moment for those members whose ventral striatum (brain adventure zone) is in overdrive! You are not required to come to every affair, just be respectful enough to know when you have to decline and don't be a flake either way. If you can't come to one we'll see you the next time, but if you promise you'd come and miss three Affairs then you must find another group that works for you. Nothing is worse to a gay man then having his time wasted!

This group is not about excluding people. But we have certain basic requirements:

We will have some Affairs that require the group to gather in public spaces. If you are not out and I mean all the way out, you may want to think twice before joining this meetup.
We are not ashamed of ourselves. If you are on the DL or whatever it's called these days, we don't participate in that. So be aware that you will be introduced in public as part of this group. But if you are looking for a welcoming place to learn how to break through that barrier then please join us.

If you have substance or sexual addiction issues we support you, but ask that you find a more appropriate group for you to join. This is not it.

We support everyone, but we are a fit and healthy group and would like to draw the same.

You must be approved by the organizers to join this group and you must adhere to the policies of each Affair. Your willingness to dump convention is definitely what we are after, but any activity that will hamper the "Freestyle", fun-loving atmosphere will not be tolerated.

Now on to the fun. Are you ready for your first Casual Gay Affair?

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  • November 19, 2011 at 7:00 PM, 4 Casual Gays attended

    Monthly Movie Night/Potluck

    They rated it 5.00 5.001 (1 ratings)

    This will be a recurring group movie night - Showing a majority of Gay themed movies. Meet us monthly when you have the time to kick back, share some food and watch a... Learn more

  • October 15, 2011 at 7:00 PM, 4 Casual Gays attended

    Monthly Movie Night/Potluck
    This will be a recurring group movie night - Showing a majority of Gay themed movies. Meet us monthly when you have the time to kick back, share some food and watch a... Learn more

  • September 18, 2011 at 5:00 PM, 2 Casual Gays attended

    Monthly Movie Night/Potluck
    This will be a recurring group movie night - Showing a majority of Gay themed movies. Meet us monthly when you have the time to kick back, share some food and watch a... Learn more

  • August 20, 2011 at 7:00 PM, 3 Casual Gays attended

    Monthly Movie Night/Potluck

    They rated it 5.00 5.001 (1 ratings)

    This will be a recurring group movie night - Showing a majority of Gay themed movies. Meet us monthly when you have the time to kick back, share some food and watch a... Learn more

  • August 14, 2011 at 2:00 PM, 2 Casual Gays attended

    What happen to the hot summer? - Social get together - Potluck

    They rated it 3.00 3.001 (1 ratings)

    This is a simple potluck get-together. The forecast for this day is partly sunny. The California weather isn't at all typical this summer, so we figure we'd take... Learn more
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  • New RSVP
    Larry Weissman Larry Weissman RSVPed Yes for Monthly Movie Night/Potluck
    February 7 at 5:18 PM
    Larry Weissman
    Feb 18
    Monthly Movie Night/Potluck
    Saturday 7:00 PM
    3 attending
  • New Discussion
    A former member A former member started Does this group do more?
    January 30 at 10:59 AM
    A former member

    "I don't mean to offend, but does this group do more than meet once a month to watch a movie?..."

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  • New Member
    Tom Tom joined
    January 12 at 1:40 PM
    Tom
    "Hi everyone!"
  • New Member
    Henry Lizarraga Henry Lizarraga joined
    January 12 at 1:40 PM
    Henry Lizarraga
    "Hi, My name is Henry, my boyfriend and i would like to meet new people and make friends. I am Latin and he is White, we've been together for almost 3 years and we are happy with our relationship but we need friends. :-)"
  • New Member
    keith keith joined
    January 12 at 1:39 PM
    keith
    "Hi! Im gay, love movies and I have tasty dishes for a potluck! Would love to join"
  • New Member
    DAVE EGAN DAVE EGAN joined
    January 12 at 1:39 PM
    DAVE EGAN
    "Hi guys, I'm Dave, 52 year old writer in Glendale. I've been single the past few years, and I'm less interested in a new relationship than I am in the company of other men from my tribe."
  • New Member
    Kelvin Kelvin joined
    December 17, 2011 at 5:22 PM
    Kelvin
    "laid back and open-minded. i'm often up too late, but getting better about it since my body has started protesting. good at car karaoke and crossing major intersections"
  • Updated RSVP
    jacob jacob RSVPed Yes for Monthly Movie Night/Potluck
    December 17, 2011 at 1:38 PM
    jacob
    Jan 21
    Monthly Movie Night/Potluck
    Saturday 7:00 PM
    3 attending
  • New Member
    Alex Uri Alex Uri joined
    December 12, 2011 at 11:27 AM
    Alex Uri
    "I love the outdoors!"
  • New Rating
    Jeff Jeff attended Monthly Movie Night/Potluck
    November 20, 2011 at 1:22 PM
    Jeff

    "It was a great night, eating, talking and then watching a movie. I'm looking forward to more nights like this."

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Founded May 31, 2010
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