Re: [homebirth-65] EMERGENT HELP NEEDED - Mom in Need

From: user 7.
Sent on: Friday, January 9, 2009 3:26 PM
not sure advice like this should be given as though this is the only or best solution for the particulars are not apparent to me and every situation/pregnancy is different.  good to hear what worked for you.  :-)


From: Shelley Gorecki <[address removed]>
To: [address removed]
Sent: Thursday, January 8,[masked]:07:42 PM
Subject: Re: [homebirth-65] EMERGENT HELP NEEDED - Mom in Need

TAKE CASTOR OIL! Once you get to the due date that is... see if you can convince your Dr to let you go just ONE DAY "late". I know it's not the ideal option, but at least you won't be on pitocin or be given a cesarean for no good reason. It tastes disgusting but my baby shot out like a bullet when I did it. I was three days past my due date and just took one ounce of castor oil- she was born 4 hours later. I think you take one ounce every 4 hours and walk around to get labor going- you should double check that though. My body was cleary ready to have the baby but I think it can take some time for it to work. You should know that it will give you diarrhea & bad gas, but that usually happens right around delivery time anyway
Other than that I have to wonder why this dr is being so adamant about this. Is there a risk to the baby or to yourself if the pregnancy continues? What's the deal?
Whatever you do, try to relax. If you have trusted this Dr so far then he must have some good points.
Everything will be ok, just don't try to deliver the baby yourself!

-------------- Original message ----------------------
From: Anne <[address removed]>
> How about lying to get an appointment with a midwife and pleading your 
> case face to face.
> Anne
>
> On Jan 8, 2009, at 4:28 PM, Gina C-C wrote:
>
> > I'm sorry to email the mailing list like this, but I'm determined to 
> > help a very scared mommy who's just 5 days away from her due date.
> >
> > Her "supposedly VBAC friendly" doctor just did a 180 at her 39 week 
> > appointment and told her that he will not "let her" go a single day 
> > past her due date, and said in very clear terms that he would force 
> > her to have a c-section if she was not in labor by Tuesday.  We know 
> > that's not legal, but he can make things terrible for her.
> >
> > I was in her exact position 8 months ago, so I know what she's going 
> > through. I stayed with my doctor and ended up going through 38 hours 
> > of torturous hospital labor where I literally had to fight him off 
> > of me to deliver my baby by a successful VBAC.  I wouldn't wish that 
> > hell on any mom.
> >
> > She wants to find a provider willing to take her as a walk-in when 
> > she goes into labor (the only way insurance will pay for it), but 
> > she said she's been calling around and no one is willing to take her 
> > this close to her due date.  Anyone have any advice or references 
> > here?  Any providers here willing to talk with her?
> >
> > Please let me know if you can provide any information that might 
> > help this scared, stressed mommy.
> >
> > Thank you!!!
> > Gina
> >
> >
> >
> >
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