THE UNDERLYING MISUNDERSTOOD TRUTH OF THE SECRET SOCIETY

by Tyler Durden

The 49% of men who live outside of the secret society don't understand the mental model of attraction of people who are in the secret society.

Men view attraction in their MALE MENTAL MODELS. They believe that attraction is "sexual aggression". They understand attraction as having a physical urge to have sex, and then mentally deciding that you will go after it.

They try to seduce women by touching and grabbing them, and getting them very horny. They try to seduce them in the SAME WAY that a woman would do well seducing THEM. They try to seduce them as if they were seducing a GUY. This sometimes works, and the propaganda is spread - "this is how to get chicks".

What the secret society members are not telling you, is that they understand that most sex occurs when women are not sexually AGGRESSIVE, but sexually RECEPTIVE.

They understand that for women to be ready for sex, they need not feel horny, they need only feel EMOTIONAL.

They understand that women are not logical, and that they are emotional. They understand that for women sex is not a big deal at all, and that its their LOGIC that puts the breaks on it.

They understand that most women are afraid of sex because they lack TRUST, and because their LOGIC is putting on the breaks.

They disarm logic by making the women EMOTIONAL, so that their LOGIC (which is the BREAKS of emotion) becomes disarmed, and at the same time maintain TRUST, so that the emotions generated won't be interfered with.

Then they simply have sex, because although the women are not WANTING sex, they are too EMOTIONAL to DECLINE sex. Then, once they BEGIN to have a physical interaction, the women become horny and sexually aggressive as a result, and sex begins.

NOTE: This is why girls must COCKBLOCK for eachother. Because they know that clubs are emotionally charged environments, and that it wouldn't take much for a guy to use her resulting sexual receptiveness to lay her. The guy may not be a guy that the girl would lay normally, were she feeling more logical, so the girls must look out for eachother. Guys don't need to do this because; first, they will not be judged for sleeping around (no logic). Secondly, they are sexually aggressive - not receptive - so their decisions will not usually be regretted later. And thirdly, because they do not need trust because they are not usually in any physical danger.

They also understand that

value + trust + attraction = sex

(rough lazy model).


Value = Being someone in the secret society. (It can also be SO many other things, but being a member can in some cases be sufficient.)

Trust = Not telegraphing interest.

Attraction = Increasing her buying temperature by making her emotional. (Emotionally aroused, not necessarily physically aroused.. the former will cause her to be too illogical to prevent you from causing the latter, when she's ready.)

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Girls get attracted when:

• Gays won't judge them for their actions (gay guys are like "you're such a sexy sluuut! The only bigger slut than you is ME!! I LOVE IT! I LOVE IT!")
  
  
• No judgement or expectations = sexual freedom.
  
  
• Gays don't make them feel like if they go all girly-girl emotional, that they'll be taken advantage of. "Around gay guys I can go crazy, and they won't force me to do something if I don't want to do it"

That does NOT mean act gay. (Although, I've tested it and laid girls with it, when I first found out about this stuff, but it's not the most efficient.)


The BETTER gameplan is to take on the stuff about their personas (the stuff above), to telegraph that you're a secret society member. A PLAYER.

Another great way to do this is to carry a photo-routine, that will telegraph your membership. But it's also telegraphed by hundreds of bodylanguage/tonality/verbal/action subcommunications. Hence why some girls react well to some guys immediately, and cold to other guys, even though the guy they act cold to might be much better looking.

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The point is that good players have the same sorts of attitudes. Girls shit test guys by touching them to see if he will try to jump on it. There's so many reasons for this, but amongst them is that she's trying to see if she gets emotional around you if she can lay you on HER buying temperature schedule, or if you'll try to impose YOURS.

For players like us, our role is to fuck these girls while they wait to find a suitable boyfriend. Any attempt to be the boyfriend will make her stop sleeping with you. Trust me, its happened to me MANY times. I'll meet a great girl, use the ASF style stuff to get her into bed, but as soon as I act like her boyfriend at all she dumps me on the spot.

But if I just keep the "don't give a shit" persona, then she'll chase me for more sex. But at the same time, many of my GFs go out and get boyfriends, and they don't expect or even think I'll be upset whatsoever.

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Summary: Most sex occurs not when women are sexually AGGRESSIVE, but sexually RECEPTIVE. For women to be ready for sex, they need not feel horny, they need only feel EMOTIONAL. Keep a Player persona to be part of the secret society.

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