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ALWAYS LEAD WITH KINDNESS

ONLY FOLLOW THOSE WHO ARE KIND TO YOU

Hi, everyone.

This is a group for sensible people.

Who see people as people - not as objects or fantasy figures.

And, who want to relate in a kind and not an abusive way.

If you find yourself, or your partner, with submissive or dominant tendencies

and you are interested in taking part in discussions, or meeting like-minded

individuals, then this could be a group for you.

You can also get information on leading with kindness, following only those who are kind to you, safety, female-led relationships that are based on leadership not subjugation, feminism, assertiveness [not bullying], being a domina, domme or dom, transvestites, crossdressers, . . .

And, so on.

By Clicking On:

http://www.meetup.com/Domme-Submissive-Relationships/about/

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And, for my Free Ebooks, by Clicking On:

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Almost all of our meetups are non-scene.

Past meetups have included discussions:

WHY EVERY WOMAN SHOULD HAVE A MALE HOUSEKEEPER.

And: SAFELY SUBMISSIVE.

[This meetup was for women only.]

Even if you cannot come to meetups you can still take part in the discussions on our DISCUSSIONS pages.

HOME HELP

If you are a woman seeking part-time male domestic help, part-time home help or a full-time male housekeeper, then please click on PAGES above.

And, then please click on HOUSEWORK FOR MEN or WHY EVERY WOMAN SHOULD HAVE A MALE HOUSEKEEPER.

QUIT SMOKING, STOP PROBLEM GAMBLING and HOARDING, LOSE WIGHT

Similarly, if you are a smoker, problem gambler, problem hoarder, have other bad habits, or want to lose weight, and need some guidance and discipline in your life, then please click on PAGES above.

And, then please click on SMOKING, PROBLEM GAMBLING and WEIGHT LOSS.

IF YOU ARE A WOMAN LOOKING FOR A DOMINANT MAN

Then please click on PAGES above.

And, then click on ARE YOU A WOMAN LOOKING FOR A DOMINANT MAN.

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FOR MY FREE EBOOKS - PLEASE CLICK ON:
https://www.smashwords.com/profile/view/BobbieGrove

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GOOD BOOKS TO READ


50 Shades Of Grey or Fifty Shades Of Grey, or Fifty Shades of Abuse as I call it, and The Story Of O might be stimulating for your fantasy life.

But, I do not recommend such books for your real life.

My Fair Lady, would do more for your real life.
If you are a submissive woman.


And, sub or domme, female or male, you can learn a lot from reading real-life books like:


The Mistress Manual: the good girl's guide to female dominance.
Mistress Lorelei. Greenery Press.
Lot's of detailed practical information.


I Was A Teenage Dominatrix: A Memoir by Shawna Kenney.

Young, broke, and miserable in crappy jobs to successful and empowered.
'I couldn't believe that just a month before I was avoiding bill collectors' calls and now I was walking out the door nightly with at least $300 in my hand – and for what?! Spanking some man who felt he needed it? Why hadn't I learned this sooner?'
And, back then, $300 was a lot more than now.


Private Theatre: Personal observations and revelations of a dominatrix.
Mistress J, a PhD and former university lecturer, is a professional dominatrix.
I highly recommend this book.
A very sensible book. For all people who want to learn about the dominance and submission that occurs in normal relationships.

And, very well written. With many quotable quotes. Like, 'On the rare occasions when I think of taking on a personal slave I generally lie down and take a nap until the momentary insanity passes.'


Dominatrix: A Memoir.
The making of Mistress Chloe.
Another real-life book by another very sensible woman.


Linda St.Clair: the autobiography of Miss Whiplash.
It's only a game. Excellent.


If you want to know what other people's fantasies are like:

Different Loving: The World Of Sexual Dominance And Submission.
By Gloria G. Brame, William D. Brame and Jon Jacobs.

And:

Women On Top: How Real Life Has Changed Women's Sexual Fantasies by Nancy Friday.


And, there is always that good old standby – The Kama Sutra.

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Founded Jul 27, 2012

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