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KINK and BDSM 101

  • Mar 14, 2014 · 7:00 PM
  • Tres' home in Barhaven

Since the group is looking into exploring this alternate lifestyle/play I figured setting up a quick and dirty BDSM 101 promoting SSC (safe, sane, consensual) and RACK (Risk aware consensual kink) would be in order. If sufficient interest I will provide a speaker and open my home in Barrhaven up to Ethical Open Ottawa members. DATE to be determined

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  • Dominique

    Tres & Ben thank you for the informative evening. Your presentation prepared me for my Mtl shopping trip. ;-)

    March 16, 2014

  • Nick K

    Thank you tres and Ben for being awesome hostess and host. Gray refresher in the finer points for our excursion next week. Looking forward to seeing you at future events. Also thanks to all those who attended. Great to see lots of new faces

    4 · March 16, 2014

  • Manuel

    Any news from our intrepid, Montreal-bound adventurer? Did she fall in love/pot-hole so typical of that city? Or was she able to avoid all the inherent dangers and return home saine et sauve? Just curious...

    1 · March 16, 2014

  • A former member
    A former member

    You are all awesome and I had an awesome time! Would love to have you all over again!

    7 · March 14, 2014

    • A former member
      A former member

      LOL@ Cathy!

      March 15, 2014

    • Manuel

      If everybody promises to keep a secret...there are lots that I've never seen. Today's net search was...'shocking'­...lol

      1 · March 15, 2014

  • Bernard D.

    Thanks a lot Tres for opening your house last night.

    March 15, 2014

  • Angelika

    A big thank you to Tres for having all of us.
    It was an informative evening that prepared me for the next journey to come.
    I am still thankful that we will be going as a group.

    2 · March 15, 2014

    • Wei

      Haha. Finally a buddy that speaks genuinely of my mind!

      2 · March 15, 2014

    • Manuel

      Easy solutions Steve: Ear plugs & dark glasses.

      2 · March 15, 2014

  • Wei

    A big and heartfelt thank you to Tres for opening up your home to all of us and for such an informative night. Many thanks to Ben for his interesting stories and important insights on mutual trust and thanks to Thea for the great probing questions. I am still amazed (but not surprised!) how well this group can self-organize itself, thanks to all who attended and demonstrated your unique talents in creating a fun event! Spring is in the air...

    5 · March 15, 2014

  • A former member
    A former member

    I just wanted to let everyone know that I posted a few pics from last night. I believe I had everyone's permission but if you are, in any way, uncomfortable with your image being on the EOO group, let me know and I will remove them.

    1 · March 15, 2014

    • A former member
      A former member

      And I notice that there are several new reviews of EOO. Feel free to add your own. It does help with the planning of the events.

      2 · March 15, 2014

  • Tracy M.

    Welcoming atmosphere, informative discussion, some great conversation, and lots of fun. Thanks all!

    2 · March 15, 2014

    • A former member
      A former member

      I was thrilled to finally meet you, Tracy. I look forward to having our paths cross again soon!

      1 · March 15, 2014

  • A former member
    A former member

    So informative! I now feel prepared to delve into a world that has always interested (but terrified) me.

    March 15, 2014

  • Cathy B

    Loved the topic and side conversations. Heroes of the night...Wei for driving from Kanata to Orleans to pick up chicks, the hosts, Thea, Deb, and DomnNick for their entertainment value and openness to demonstrate the toys and positions.

    2 · March 15, 2014

  • Manuel

    Thanks Tres for having me over and the extensive knowledgeable lesson; still taking notes...lol. Will brush up next week!

    3 · March 15, 2014

  • A former member
    A former member

    We are on our way but may be a tad late since we're coming from so far. We'll get there as soon as we can.

    March 14, 2014

    • Nick K

      I'm running late too and the cheese sticks are slightly burnt

      March 14, 2014

  • Piotr

    Sadly, since I haven't received venue's coordinates, I will not attend. Next time...

    March 14, 2014

    • A former member
      A former member

      Sorry, Piotr. Because the event is at a private home the host is the only one authorized to give the address. Please check out some of our other activities. We always have some fun and informative Meet-ups in the works.

      2 · March 14, 2014

  • A former member
    A former member

    Anyone? :) I should've joined earlier! oh well ce la vie, have fun people!

    March 14, 2014

    • A former member
      A former member

      No worries Nick, Ill go to another event some time :) cheers!

      March 14, 2014

    • A former member
      A former member

      Sorry, Greg. As Nick said, it is up to the host to give their address. Please check out some of our other Meet-ups. We always have something fun in the works.

      1 · March 14, 2014

  • Nick K

    Change of plans. Can't make it

    March 14, 2014

    • A former member
      A former member

      Doesn't it give you the warm fuzzies? :P

      1 · March 14, 2014

    • Nick K

      Ummmm..... yes it does ;)

      March 14, 2014

  • Piotr

    Is there any chance of obtaining the venue's address?

    March 14, 2014

  • Wei

    Interesting article. Is mental SM a part of tonight's topic? Just curious. :)

    http://www.thedailybeast.com/articles/2010/07/29/cuckolding-the-sex-fetish-for-intellectuals.html

    1 · March 14, 2014

    • A former member
      A former member

      I would touch on psychological triggers as a part of negotiation

      1 · March 14, 2014

    • A former member
      A former member

      We can talk about anything that strikes fancy... My main goal was to ensure you all knew about scene etiquette etc and some safety considerations before 50 shades of oops

      1 · March 14, 2014

  • A former member
    A former member

    Looking forward to seeing and meeting all of you, looks like this will be educational AND fun! 1. does everybody have the address? 2. Is anybody afraid of a small lizard? let me know so I can move her :)

    1 · March 13, 2014

    • Angelika

      Chicken, oh no, I had some tonight

      March 13, 2014

    • A former member
      A former member

      Hi tres, any chance I can slip into this meetup? :) Not sure where to go or anything :)

      March 14, 2014

  • A former member
    A former member

    Too late for me to go?

    March 14, 2014

  • Nick K

    Happy Pi day!

    March 14, 2014

    • A former member
      A former member

      Mmmmh pecan

      March 14, 2014

  • Cathy B

    Just asking again, anyone coming from Orleans? And no comments from the peanut gallery (Nick).

    1 · March 13, 2014

    • Cathy B

      Yes it does. Text me anytime. Thanks.

      March 14, 2014

    • Cathy B

      Omg Nick, you are going to be a pain. Did you ever wonder why when you join the massage group they never ever again had a meeting. As for the peanuts, if you are not careful, you're going to get that name peanut boy. People will wonder why you got that name but only time will tell.

      March 14, 2014

  • Jonathan

    I'd like to attend with my partner so if there is still room I'll need the address. Not fond of snakes but a lizard should be fine.

    March 13, 2014

  • Dominique

    Looking forward to this educational evening!
    Thank you Thea for offering us a ride. We will ride with Wei. See you all there !

    1 · March 13, 2014

  • A former member
    A former member

    Deb, Cathy and Dominique: Steven and I have space in the car if any of you need a ride. Please let me know. :)

    March 13, 2014

    • Wei

      I will give rides to Deb and Dominique. Cathy, would you like to join us? :)

      2 · March 13, 2014

    • Wei

      No massages condition attached. :)

      3 · March 13, 2014

  • Cathy B

    Anyone coming from Orleans who wants a freeloader to ride with them?

    March 11, 2014

    • Cathy B

      Nick, as you are the expert who belongs to the official Massage meetup, you must be meaning you are offering both a ride AND a massage. How could anyone turn this down. I bet all the other ladies in this group would be looking for the same great offer as well. You're going to be a chauffeur all evening and masseur by night.

      March 11, 2014

    • A former member
      A former member

      that sounds great, but can he cook? :P

      1 · March 13, 2014

  • Tracy M.

    By the looks of all this food we're all gonna look fat in our fetish gear next week, lol

    2 · March 12, 2014

    • Tracy M.

      I just don't want to burst out of skivvies until I'm good and ready!

      1 · March 12, 2014

    • Nick K

      I won't complain if anyone bursts out of their skivvies

      1 · March 12, 2014

  • Cathy B

    I feel like we should all be bringing appetizers or something.

    2 · March 11, 2014

    • A former member
      A former member

      Nick, would you like me to bring a shrimp ring?

      1 · March 12, 2014

    • Nick K

      Lol @ Thea. Oh yes please

      1 · March 12, 2014

  • A former member
    A former member

    Hello, If anybody has not received the address please let me know and I will provide it to you.

    1 · March 9, 2014

    • A former member
      A former member

      Hi Tres! Can you please send me the info? This will be my first meet up :-)

      March 11, 2014

  • deb

    Dominique, do you have a ride set up yet?

    March 11, 2014

  • A former member
    A former member

    I have sent the address out to those who confirmed to be attending, feel free to bring partner(s) I will be providing the information and afterwards if we would like to mix/mingle that's fine. BYOB and no drinking and driving

    2 · March 3, 2014

    • Peter W.

      I have not received the address. Peter Wilson

      March 11, 2014

    • A former member
      A former member

      Sent

      March 11, 2014

  • MikeJB

    I'd like the details as well Tres. I'm confirmed I think but I'm still unsure of how to get there, dress code and what to expect.
    Thanks

    March 10, 2014

    • A former member
      A former member

      sent

      March 10, 2014

  • john

    You just had to make this on Steak n BJ Day!! Lol i have a date night!!! Will make one of these soon!!

    March 9, 2014

  • Angelika

    Thank you for teaching us a thing or two. I am looking forward to it. May I bring my husband along?

    February 27, 2014

    • A former member
      A former member

      Yes please bring partners

      February 27, 2014

  • A former member
    A former member

    Hmm I don't seem able to edit. So Friday March 14 at 7pm. My place which I will email to those interested. I live in Barrhaven and will have coffee, tea and assorted pop.Oh I have a small lizard so if you are afraid, let me know and I will stash her away.

    February 26, 2014

  • A former member
    A former member

    I will ensure everything you need to know for a positive visit including what to wear, what to expect, what you may see and how to avoid gaffs is covered and provide information about the local scene, local events and online info. How is a Friday night for you all?

    1 · February 25, 2014

    • A former member
      A former member

      A Saturday works better for me BUT schedule it for what works best for you. I will do my best to make it whichever day it is held on.

      February 26, 2014

    • deb

      Saturday is easier for me as well, since I work early Saturday mornings. But again, do what works for you.

      February 26, 2014

  • Dominique

    Not this Friday for me either otherwise any other Friday. I will bring my notebook to take notes like a good student. lol

    1 · February 25, 2014

  • Tracy M.

    Much appreciated. I'm very interestred in knowing what to expect at the club, what people will be wearing, what we might see, and how to avoid doing anything stupid,.

    1 · February 24, 2014

    • Wei

      Similar to walking into a nudist beach fully dressed...

      February 24, 2014

    • Tracy M.

      See, that's exactly what I want to avoid. Although acting inappropriate ly might be a good way to get spanked....;)

      1 · February 24, 2014

  • Wei

    I personally am only in favor of two scoopes of vanilla ice sceam. Neither kinky nor BDSM nor fetish. I am even respectfully judgemental. But I really appreciate Tres for organizing this!

    February 24, 2014

  • A former member
    A former member

    This sounds wonderful, Tres. Thanks for suggesting it!

    1 · February 24, 2014

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