About a woman changing her name to the husband's . . .respect, sexist or just "too much trouble."

From: Norma Jeane Y.
Sent on: Saturday, May 31, 2014 12:22 AM

https://shine.yahoo..com/love-sex/changing-name-marriage-kim-kardashian-west-taking-husband-s-last-name-184620538.html

 

Having done “the whole route”—took my husband’s name in 1969; after 6 yrs. of marriage

& “consciousness-raising”; tried alternatives, such as hyphenating both of our names –-

with his last (found people considered my last name to be the name they heard last—His);

tried it the other way & it was still cumbersome.  Finally I just went back to my birth name,

even though that came from a man—my father – but at least I had had THAT identity for 21 yrs.

I considered, also, inventing a whole new name, but that would have required me to start from

“scratch” to build an identity. . .& I wouldn’t have had a sense of my own history as much.

 

Now?  I wouldn’t change my name for love or money.  It’s a matter of principle & practicality!

 

--Norma

 

P.  S.  What man would be willing to change His name to the woman’s?!  I’ve done “informal

Polling” & haven’t found even one man who would be willing—no matter how liberal he is.

 

 




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