Manners, Etiquette, and the Peculiar Secrets of the English Character

In January we will be reading three selections that fit the theme “Manners, Etiquette, and the Peculiar Secrets of the English Character”: Sorry!: The English and Their Manners by, Henry Hitchings, Pride and Prejudice by, Jane Austen, and North and South by, Elizabeth Gaskell.


Sorry!: The English and Their Manners by, Henry Hitchings

From that very first time we're first scolded for putting our elbows on the table at great-aunt Millie's house, we're inducted into the world of manners. After that, it's a lifetime of "pleases" and "thank yous," and chewing with our mouths closed.

But where did all of this civility come from? We can't give all the credit (or blame) to the English, but the average Brit says "sorry" eight times per day, so it's a pretty good place to start.

In his new book, Sorry! The English and their Manners, Henry Hitchings traces the history of today's customs back to medieval times, when polite behavior was a necessary precaution against violence at mealtimes.

http://www.npr.org/2013/11/09/243940676/english-manners-are-downright-medieval-sorry-was-that-rude



Pride and Prejudice by, Jane Austen

"It is a truth universally acknowledged, that a single man in possession of a good fortune must be in want of a wife."


So begins Pride and Prejudice, Jane Austen's witty comedy of manners--one of the most popular novels of all time--that features splendidly civilized sparring between the proud Mr. Darcy and the prejudiced Elizabeth Bennet as they play out their spirited courtship in a series of eighteenth-century drawing-room intrigues. Renowned literary critic and historian George Saintsbury in 1894 declared it the "most perfect, the most characteristic, the most eminently quintessential of its author's works," and Eudora Welty in the twentieth century described it as "irresistible and as nearly flawless as any fiction could be."

http://www.npr.org/2013/01/27/170253360/pride-and-prejudice-turns-200



North and South by Elizabeth Gaskell

When her father leaves the Church in a crisis of conscience, Margaret Hale is uprooted from her comfortable home in Hampshire to move with her family to the north of England. Initially repulsed by the ugliness of her new surroundings in the industrial town of Milton, Margaret becomes aware of the poverty and suffering of the local mill workers and develops a passionate sense of social justice. This is intensified by her tempestuous relationship with the mill-owner and self-made man, John Thornton, as their fierce opposition over his treatment of his employees masks a deeper attraction. In North and South, Elizabeth Gaskell skillfully fuses individual feeling with social concern, and in Margaret Hale creates one of the most original heroines of Victorian literature.

https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/156538.North_and_South?from_search=true



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Reminder: We usually choose 2-3 books per month. You're welcome at our meeting whether you read all or none of the books. We read fiction, nonfiction, and plays, and usually try to cover 1 piece of classic literature monthly. We read books reviewed or mentioned on NPR, and try to mirror NPR's tone at our meetings: thoughtful, polite discussion & commentary, with no arguing or posturing, and no sacred cows or unmentioned elephants in the room.

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  • Leslie C

    Still like checking out the books you are reading.

    January 15, 2014

  • Dorian T.

    Greetings! Since there isn't a library or Kindle option for next month's selection "Daughter of the River," I've asked Barnes and Noble to order a few copies, so that they are available Friday for those interested. See you all at the book club meeting!

    January 15, 2014

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