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Gary I.


Santa Cruz, CA
Hometown: San Raphael, CA

Member since:

August 24, 2013

Please introduce yourself to the group. E.g. Where do you live? What do you do? What was your best date?

I live in Santa Cruz, that little paradise on the other side of the hill. I'm an artist that also loves high tech. I build websites based on what my friends are doing. But my current friends are "couple friends". I'm single now but Santa Cruz is a small town. Everyone that knows me also knew my late wife. What a pickle. My favorite date was when I hired a limo service in San Francisco. The limo looked like a caterpillar and the driver was a clown. It picked us up (me my wife and two friends) in SF and drove us around to night clubs in SF. We would park out front and go inside. Of course there wasn't any room at the bar so I would mention the car to the bartender and everybody at the bar would go out to see the car. All of a sudden there were lots of seats at the bar. We did that for hours till the clubs closed. What a rush. So will someone help me get out of my current funk?

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Hi, I'm Gary. I am a widower that has just come back to the dating scene. I have only dated one person in the last 25 years so I'm a bit rusty. I would say that I have a pretty good sense of humor, unless they think I'm funny looking.

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