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How to get over your fear of flirting by Jean Smith

Have ever wondered whether you’ve misread signals from someone? Concerned you've missed an opportunity to meet a potential date, or felt stuck on how to flirt with them? If this is sounds familiar then get ready because I am the woman who’s going to liven up your love life!

I will reveal the 7 disastrous flirting mistakes you're making without knowing it and give you the solutions to help you correct them. You will be the coolest kid on the block in no time.

Here are a few things you will take away from the talk:

• A clear idea of things you have been doing wrong in flirting

• How to become a more proficient flirt

• How to become less afraid of rejection

• An understanding of how people like to be flirted with (especially in London!)

• How to become a Fearless Flirter

You will leave this talk armed with new information and, possibly, a few new numbers!

http://youtu.be/CwnzlIW2T0c

Jean Smith, founder of Flirtology.

A Flirt Interpreter, I can give anyone the confidence – and skills – to attract and approach potential partners…

Flirting is a science and it can be taught. My mission is for you to experience just how good flirting can make you feel, how much fun it is, and how fruitful it can be.

I have always been curious about human behaviour, but I found my niche, flirting, when I moved to London in 1999 and noticed mixed signals were driving all my single friends crazy. After researching the flirting and dating habits of 250 people in London, New York, Paris and Stockholm, I discovered that standard flirting behaviour does cross cultures and that there are six universal flirting signs.

I’ve always given dating and flirting advice to friends and family (my two younger brothers and their friends were my training ground), so after my research revealed scientific proof on how to flirt successfully, I created Flirtology in 2002, teaching practical and fun ways to meet people.

On my two-hour Fearless Flirting Tours, shy people transformed into confident sirens.

A small shift in how you feel about yourself can impact the rest of your life. And I can help. In a matter of hours you’ll learn…

http://youtu.be/hzAR_vjkZho

Fearless flirting / Rejection is your friend. Feel confident when faced with new situations and people, reassured any form of perceived rejection is not something to be afraid of – it’s actually your friend! It’s the process of natural selection in action. You can’t connect with everyone, so if someone doesn’t “get” you, that’s fine. Simply move on and spend your energy finding someone you click with.

Be grateful. Often we focus on an area we feel is lacking. Instead, feel grateful for everything you already have. Recognise how amazing your life is whether you have a partner or not.

How to be happy. If you’re smiling and in a great mood, others can’t help but feel happy being around you. You’ll become a magnet because of the good feelings you exude.

Trust me, flirting is fun, dating is easy and life is full with or without a partner. Join me on a Fearless Flirting Tour and I’ll prove it! Or let’s get to the heart of the matter with some Private Coaching.

A flirting expert, Jean Smith has appeared on TV, radio and in print commenting on topics ranging from dating, flirting and relationships to wider social issues. Television appearances include BBC Breakfast, Daybreak and ITV’s London Tonight and she has been featured in or written for, among others, Marie Claire, The Times and The Daily Express.

With a degree in Cultural Anthropology and a Masters in Social Anthropology, Jean’s outlook on flirting is based on science, but believes it should be fun, and dating, easy. Her book, The Flirt Interpreter, distils her research into dating advice and reveals the six universal signs of flirting. As the founder of Flirtology, Jean teaches people how to find and keep their perfect partner.

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  • A former member
    A former member

    Hi, sorry for the late comments. Had a great time and Jean was good fun.. Met some lovely people and had some nice chats in the pub afterwards.

    April 30, 2014

  • Mona

    Interesting presentation, followed by interesting discussion with a fun crowd in the pub afterwards. Was my first meet up with this group and will definitely be signing up for more! Thanks Matt for organising..

    April 24, 2014

  • Matt K.

    This talk is now available on our membership http://www.interestingtalks.co.uk/jean-smith

    April 23, 2014

  • blackbutterfly

    I had to cancel at the last minute but hope this talk is available on line

    April 22, 2014

  • Maria

    Really enjoyed this talk and the fun activities! Jean was captivating and a natural! Met some lovely friendly people too! Thanks Jean and Matt for organising! X

    April 23, 2014

  • Ali

    Thank you Jean for the valuable advice, it's time to put them in practice!

    April 23, 2014

  • ClaireS

    Fun activities and Jean was really enjoyable to listen to.

    April 23, 2014

  • A former member
    A former member

    Excellent content and activities were a great way of getting to know new people. As usual lots of enthusiasm from everyone. Send you a postcard from Stockholm!!

    April 23, 2014

  • Carolina

    Hi just wanted to say I loved this talk. It was fun to participate and my chin fell when I heard what the common flirting mistakes are. I feel much more relaxed and open now about the connection with men and trust I know what to do. A new world opened itself : ) many thanks Jean and Matt : )

    April 22, 2014

  • Louise

    So sorry im not gonna make it in time. Came out at the wrong station and I wont be there by 7 as im too far away :-(

    April 22, 2014

  • Daniel D.

    Shame this is full. Please let me know if there are any last minute drop outs. Or any chance of it being repeated due to high demand?

    April 22, 2014

  • Sha

    I will come

    April 21, 2014

    • Matt K.

      Sorry but this event is sold out.

      April 22, 2014

  • Sean M.

    Can I come and pay?

    April 22, 2014

    • Matt K.

      Sorry but this event is sold out.

      April 22, 2014

  • Jonny M.

    Me too!! *raises hand*

    April 22, 2014

    • Matt K.

      Sorry but this event is sold out.

      April 22, 2014

  • Yvonne T.

    A full house Jean! That's brilliant. Like an earlier post I did a flirt-walk a while back. Jean knows her stuff. You are all in for a treat.

    April 18, 2014

  • Jean S.

    Are you ready for fun and flirting?! I am looking forward to meeting you all next Tuesday. I've been working on creating an evening for you that is equal parts information and fun. Happy Easter everyone.

    2 · April 17, 2014

  • Lucinda N.

    It is time to move out of the comfort zone beyond the stretch zone into the panic zone...!

    1 · April 8, 2014

  • Jean S.

    Hello all! Are you tired of not knowing what to say? Being afraid that you are doing all the wrong things? It doesn't have to be like that; flirting is fun! Let me, and science, show you how it's done.

    March 12, 2014

  • Jean S.

    Hi Christine, thank you for your kind words. It will be great to see you again!

    March 12, 2014

  • A former member
    A former member

    I went on a Flirt-Walk with Jean a few years ago and had a wonderful time. Surprised there are still spaces!! She's a charming lady who knows her stuff - you should come....

    March 2, 2014

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