Ever go out and feel powerless? Feel like you don’t know how to walk up to a group or what to say? Ever notice how there are some people who can easily walk up to anyone and start a conversation?

How do they do that?

The obvious answer is. They use their bodies to move towards the person or group they want to talk to. Then they open up their mouth and words come out.

So why is that so hard?

The truth is that walking up to a person or group is not the first thing that happens. The first thing that happens is thoughts run through your mind. These are what keep you from simply going up and talking to that person or group.

The best way to learn the skill of what I call “Socialiting”, is having another person with you as a guide.

This group goes out regularly to build social skills by instruction, example, and practice.

We are the group within the group.  We often join other meetup events.  We move through the crowd and take leadership roles by serving our number one priority.

Our number one priority is to ensure that everyone is having a good time.  We do this by finding those that are standing alone waiting for someone to start the conversion.  We are the social butterflies that pull them into the group.

If you join and participate, you will learn how to be the center of any social setting even if you already have mad skilz.

And why does this method work?

Because everyone goes out to meet other people.  The only catch is that hardly anyone is actually interacting with others.  By learning to be the person that connects the group, you become the center.  You become the connection hub.

Wallflower to Socialite in 30 days for free!

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