Potential for Growth

Hi All

We spoke at the last meeting how some of our "preferences" (e.g. Intuition or Feeling) may not necessarily determine by themselves our ability to "apply" or "use" them adequately. This made me think of the above subject.

In particular the following questions may get us going
What have been your greatest moments of growth and what are your greatest aspirations for growth? And how do these relate to the INFJ preferences and traits and "common" challenges as presented by the model?

What are your thoughts? Would that be worthy of a meet up?

Hi Tracie

Could that be the subject for the one that you were planning to arrange in a couple of weeks?

Thanks in advance

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  • James

    I honestly enjoyed this meetup so much. There was such a great 'INFJ' vibe for the whole evening. We covered loads of areas, and everyone opened up about things. I will definitely be coming along to more meetups of this group.

    2 · March 7

    • Tracie

      Im really glad you enjoyed the meetup James. It's always a joy connecting with people in a meaningful way.

      March 9

  • Bernie Chan Roy

    Ah I'm so sorry I couldn't make it today! Got caught up in work and completely forgot- hopefully I'll be able to make it to the next meeting, very disappointed that I missed this!

    March 7

    • Tracie

      Hi Bernie, no worries. The next meeting is on the 22nd March. Hopefully you can make it

      March 8

    • James

      Hey Bernie, I do hope you make it along to the next one. Based on the meetup last night, I would say this meetup is a dream come true for any INFJ! Also, I it would be great to see you at the MBTI meetup next Thursday. There are lots of different types there, and it is also great fun.

      1 · March 8

  • Tracie

    The full Infj force was unleashed!! lol as usual, we discussed the main topic but also digressed to other themes. I am always intrigued meeting other Infjs and disgussing our experiences, similarities and differences. There certainly was a good vibe yesterday-looking forward to the next one. At the next meetup, Will also eat more, before consuming alcohol lol :)

    1 · March 8

  • Jean-Charles Gentilly

    I thoroughly enjoyed it too. I liked James how you were able to describe so accurately yesterday some of the behaviours in the group that contributed to this INFJ vibe and the impact it had on the overall dynamic e.g. roughly equal turn to share one's thoughts and feelings without having a need for a "facilitator" or "structure". Great ideas and insightful perspectives that I felt privileged to listened to.

    Internal deliberation/introspection is great but I believe there is also so much value in the power of attention from another (or others) that give(s) you their wholeness. That is how it felt for me yesterday so thanks to you Hasan, James and Tracie - alphabetical order before any of you tries to see any "meaning" in the order ;)

    Enjoyed the laughs too!

    Loved it and will come back for some more for sure...

    2 · March 8

  • Tracie

    Hi Everyone, Looking forward to tomorrows meetup. As usual, we'll be upstairs on the first floor. There'll be an "Infj Meetup" sign with directions at the entrance of the pub. The group will sitting at the table with a "Infj meetup" sign. Ill be there from 6:30-6:45 Hopefully see you then!

    1 · March 6

    • James

      I am going to head down straight from work, so will be there around 6.30, see you all later. J

      2 · March 7

    • Tracie

      ok James, see you then.

      March 7

  • Oli

    Ah, I can't make it! Sad times. See you at the next one, hopefully!

    1 · February 28

    • Tracie

      Hey oli, no worries :) Thanks for letting me know

      1 · February 28

  • James

    This looks like a really interesting topic, I am definitely putting this one in the diary.

    2 · February 26

    • Tracie

      Hey James, will be fascinating talking to yourself (and other infjs) about our weaknesses. Hopefully see you there!

      February 26

  • Hasan

    I'll try my best to attend ...I should make it ! it has been a long time !

    2 · February 26

    • Tracie

      I hope you can make it! Im also planning another meeting on Introverted Intuition on 22nd...

      February 26

  • Nico

    Damn, already have plans for that evening. Hopefully next time.

    1 · February 24

  • Bridget

    Sorry Tracie but I can't make this day. Thursdays are never good for me.

    February 24

  • Tracie

    Hi everyone, I hope this time and date is good for everyone. If you cant make this date, let me know and ill try rearranging. The topic of discussion will focus on ideas for growth and Infj weaknesess-which im sure will be an interesting discussion! the topic also relates to having Extraverted Sensing as an inferior function. Hope to see you there!

    February 24

  • Tracie

    Hey JC, Thanks for suggesing this meetup! I planned to focus the next meeting on "Introverted Intuition" (Infj's dominant cognitive function") But this is also a good idea (and may include discussing this anyway)

    February 10

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