How many times have you RSVP'd for an event because you saw someone on the attending list you thought was interesting? And you go to the event with tunnel vision looking to connect with THAT person? Or have you NOT signed up for an event because someone was attending you wanted to avoid? Or perhaps you were talking with someone and they made what you thought was a sarcastic remark. Did you get sarcastic right back? Did you shut down and give them the cold shoulder? Write them off? All of these actions are emotional reactions and they are costing you opportunities to connect. Learn how to stop getting in your own way. Check out Emotionally Intelligent Daters for "I Don't Need No Stinkin' Emotional Intelligence...Or Do I?" to see how. You can get all the details and RSVP on that meetup page.
Go to: http://www.meetup.com/Emotionally-Intelligent-Daters/events/104889192/