IT TAKES A VILLAGE TO RAISE A CONSCIOUSNESS
New Culture Minnesota is an offshoot of the Network for New Culture, which is a movement exploring how to build a sustainable, violence-free culture through compassionate, transparent, playful acceptance of oneself and others, within the context of a trust-based group (or tribe, community, village). New Culture is totally non-religious and non-commercial, and has no gurus or dogmas.
There are many New Culture communities growing and budding around the world. Learn more about Network for New Culture: www.nfnc.org
New Culture groups often use Non-violent Communication as a tool used for discovering one's own needs and empathizing with the needs of others. Learn more about NVC: www.cnvc.org
One of our group processes is to explore ways of building trust within the group. We do this by co-creating a "safe-container" in which we can take off our social masks, and connect through fun group games and interactions that focus on compassion, transparency, and playfulness. We start with self-compassion, exploring and accepting our own feelings and needs, and then we extend that understanding to others in our group, and ultimately, to others out in our daily lives, in "mainstream culture," in order to *be the change* we want to see in the world.
MONDAY NIGHT SHENANIGANS - OUR WEEKLY MEETUP
At Monday Night Shenanigans we utilize "tribal technologies" (or trust-building connection tools) to bring us from the conceptual into the experiential, completely honoring each individual's choice to participate at the level that is comfortable for her/him.
At Shenanigans, we create a *safe container* in which we practice the values of transparency/vulnerability, empathy/compassion/unconditional love, curiosity/playfulness, choice/autonomy, non-judgment/acceptance, respect, equality, and responsibility.
We're very excited to grow a field of compassionate consciousness here in MN that we can connect to other growing fields, and extend into our daily lives!
SOME TOPICS AT MEETUPS MAY INCLUDE:
- Basic human needs and feelings
- The Value of platonic touch -- nurturing and playful touch, as something separate from sexual intimacy
- Relationship styles
- Intentional communities
- Trust-based communication and co-intelligence
- Dominance structure of the current mainstream cultural model
- Compassionate communication
- Aliveness! What makes you come alive in your interactions & what makes you feel dead?
- Existence, oneness, and non-duality
- Authentic expression - What does it look like? Vulnerability with freedom from shame
- Tools for letting go of social programming
- Gender and identity
- Sexuality and body positivity
- Autonomy and equality
Looking forward to being silly, vulnerable, nurturing, and culturally creative with you!
~Brooke Murphy, co-organizer
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VIDEOS for MORE INFORMATION:
If you get a chance, watch some of these informational videos about New Culture and non-violent communication before you come to a meetup. If you can't, no big deal. :) Note that different New Culture communities have different personalities and explore different aspects of connection. New Culture MN will develop its own personality.
1. Kelly Bryson wrote the book, "Don't Be Nice; Be Real," and in this video below, he is interviewed about the New Culture movement and non-violent communication.
http://nvcprinciples.com/interviews/kelly-bryson-a-new-culture/
2. Marshall Rosenberg talks about non-violent communication (NVC) - part 1
http://youtu.be/M-129JLTjkQ
3. ZEGG Community description (parts 1 and 2)
http://youtu.be/mUc4bMPjbVo - part 1
http://youtu.be/lvzR86gSmvY - part 2
New Culture and Other Links to Explore:
Language Of Compassion - Kelly Bryson is an amazing Non-violent communication and New Culture teacher, as well a therapist, songwriter, and the author of "Don't Be Nice; Be Real." He co-creates the New Culture Spring Camp in the Santa Cruz, CA area each year. I highly recommend going! I went last year and will go again this year for sure. Kelly, Samantha and others also host regular New Culture weekends and gatherings in the Bay Area.
Non-violent Communication - NVC begins by assuming that we are all compassionate by nature and that violent strategies—whether verbal or physical—are learned behaviors taught and supported by the prevailing culture. NVC also assumes that we all share the same, basic human needs, and that each of our actions are a strategy to meet one or more of these needs.
Network for New Culture - This site is a treasure trove of information on New Culture, from its roots in the Zegg Community in Germany. In addition to the aforementioned Spring Camp, there are many wonderful camps and gatherings happening on the west coast, east coast and Hawaii. Minnesota is next! Sarah Taub and Michael Rios co-create Summer Camp East and many other events with the help of others, and I highly recommend checking out their offerings as well! Blake and I went to Summer Camp in southern Oregon this past summer and were transformed by all the workshops, not to mention the experience of living in community for 10 days, camping, cooking, eating and even showering together!
Zegg Community - ZEGG is an intentional community and an international meeting point, developing and implementing practical models for a socially and ecologically sustainable way of living. It is located south-west of Berlin and its full German name translates as the "Centre for Experimental Culture Design."
Shamantra Trance-formational Dance - I can't recommend this enough! Here in the Twin Cities, there is a pod of genuine, open, compassionate, aware, non-judgmental people dancing to awesome music and soulful transformational messages offered by Dan Gorbunow and Hanakia Zedek. I've been to two dances so far and will continue to go! We want to collaborate with these wonderful people!
Hanakia Zedek - “It is not about whom or what you believe in; it is about what you do, what you choose to think, and how you choose to feel. It is this which shapes your reality."
Hanakia’s philosophy that everything comes out of Nothing allows for the release of all that you hold onto…belief, fear, ego, hope, faith, worry, pain; all of with we have created and been trained to believe in; all of which create separation within ourselves and the Universe.
Human Awareness Institute - The Human Awareness Institute (HAI) is a safe place to explore, enhance and discover ways to communicate intimately and become confident in your relationships and sexuality. Life is a journey and one of the most sacred parts of this journey is your relationship with yourself and your relationship with others.
Reid About Sex - Reid Mikalho is a traveling amazes, educates, and role models healthy intimacy and relationship. We really hope to have him out to present some workshops with us here in MN!
Kamala Devi's Partner Playshop - Kamala Devi presents events and workshops on Tantra and polyamory in San Diego, CA. Along with Reid Mikalho and many other Tantra teachers, Kamala co-created Tantrapalooza, a five day intensive Tantra retreat that began on 11/11/11. I attended the retreat and experienced a field of loving energy that blew my mind.
New Culture Hawaii - Amazingly heart-centered, aware and playful people offering many exciting gatherings.
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