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North Jersey Poly Potluck

  • Oct 26, 2014 · 4:30 PM
  • Private House

Welcome to the North Jersey Poly Potluck! 
Poly Friendly people gathering together to share food and community in Northern New Jersey.

"Relationships thrive when they are supported in a community that holds them sacred." Lisa, Event Host

What to expect: Poly friendly gathering for all ages, genders and relationship descriptions. 
This is a relaxed, casual event for experienced Poly's, newbies, curious, sexuality positive and open minded people. And anyone who enjoys community, transparent communication and intimacy.

This is come as you are space. Share what is true for you now; relate with each other, ourselves and grow a community, cultivate relationship skills and to have some light hearted fun!

For the potluck, bring your favorite dish or dessert, enough for yourself and to share with 6 people. Include ingredients written on index cards for people with food allergies. This is an alcohol free event. Soft drinks will be provided by the host.

The event is Poly Family Friendly, kids are welcome and must be supervised by the adults who bring them.*

This Poly Family Friendly event will be held at a private home in Bergen County (NJ). (About 20 minutes drive from the George Washington Bridge) Exact address will be emailed to people who RSVP YES with their contact information or via 
Include the number of Adults and Ages of Children in the RSVP.

Order of Events::

4:30 to 5:30 PM:: Informal Introductions; Eat and Socialize 

5:30 to 6:30 PM:: Facilitated Discussion: New Topics Each Month

7:00 to 7:30 PM:: More Informal Socializing

7:30 to 8:00 PM:: Clean up and Good-Byes 'Til Next Time

Contact Lisa at [masked] for information.

Who are the Event Hosts?

Lisa Sandhusen

Lisa Sandhusen is a Conscious Parenting Peer Educator, Post Partum Doula, Peaceful Birth Advocate, Poly Activist, Transformational Coach, Sexuality and Relationship Educator and Bellydancer. She brings her 15 years of experience as a Parent of two active children who have put her through the paces of 'parenting differently'. 
Her warm and casual presentation style is comfortable and puts everyone at instant ease. Her natural and intuitive leadership inspires truly meaningful conversations that enable people to explore the depth of their emotions in a light and playful atmosphere. 
Contact Lisa for Conscious Conception Coaching, Post Partum Doula Services and/or Personal Coaching at [masked] or call[masked] (mobile)

*Teens and children are "at choice" to sit with the adults in the discussion group as long as they agree to the rules of the circle. Anyone of any age who becomes disruptive or disrespects boundaries will be asked to leave the discussion circle. Contact Lisa at [masked] for information.


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  • Lisa Myla S.

    It was a fun to share communication tools for supporting relationships whether they are going through transition or stable. Suggestions of tools that worked ranged from, blame-it-on-the-scapecat to the "Do Over", a technique that is helpful when a conversation or situation goes in an undesirable direction. Let's try that again from the top.

    2 · October 28, 2014

  • Charlotte

    Thank you, Lisa, it was a very insightful evening. :)

    1 · October 27, 2014

  • Nir

    Great to meet everyone! Special thanks to Lisa for hosting and facilitating.

    1 · October 27, 2014

  • Alec U.

    Excellent as always. Very good discussion!

    1 · October 26, 2014

  • Joe B.

    Hi , do we know what town in Bergen County? Im from Morris county , trying to figure
    travel time. Thks

    October 24, 2014

    • Lisa Myla S.

      Did you RSVP Yes?
      The address info has been emailed to those that RSVP Yes.

      October 25, 2014

  • Lisa Myla S.

    Reminder to RSVP YES for the Potluck this coming Sunday.

    The location is a private residence and directions will be sent out on Friday to those that RSVP YES only.

    Space is cozy, so if you end up changing your RSVP please post here so that others can attend. Last months discussion was very rich and we will continue to build. Bring your questions, celebrations and curiosity.

    This is an open group welcoming to all relationship styles and celebrates diversity in self expression.

    October 21, 2014

  • Bachir

    Unfortunately I will be in Germany.
    Next time.

    October 19, 2014

    • Lisa Myla S.

      We look forward to meeting you in person next time!

      October 21, 2014

  • Charlotte

    Looks like we can make it after all. :)

    1 · October 13, 2014

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