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Hi NY singles, Antonia Geno, NYDC female perspective coach just wrote an article on what women really look at , when you approaching them. Take a look, its an interesting read.
How women REALLY want you to approach them (Woman’s perspective)
One size fits all never works. It never did. This is why you have to figure out your natural style when it comes to making an impression on a beautiful woman. And with Spring finally here, now is the best time to do it. After a cruel and unforgiving winter, the warm weather is just around the corner and women are already out in full force looking to meet a cool guy - it could be you - or the guy next to you who is talking to the hottie you’re afraid to. The time to stare is over, now it’s time to reel her in with your bulletproof confidence and charming self. Unless of course, you were like a bear in hibernation this past winter and didn’t workout your social and flirting muscles. Time to change that.
So, where do you start? How do you do it?
Hot women get approached everyday, all the time- but are you doing it correctly or better yet, are you doing it at all? Do you know the number one mistake that men make that is unforgiveable?
The one thing you must absolutely do in order not to scare her off is to correct these 2 core issues. In fact, one of the biggest conversation killing issues I correct with my clients is not what you’re thinking. It barely has anything to do with conversation but rather, ultra weak body language. Nothing says low confidence like your negative unspoken language of the body. If you want to see her again then your secret non-verbal cues will play a crucial role. Luckily, all of these things can be transformed.
But don’t neglect another crucial part of the puzzle: your face. Women are natural at reading facial expressions and do it subconsciously all the time. "Men are inept and under equipped to detect and act on these non-verbal hieroglyphics that all women’s faces express naturally" (word for word, quote from David, our night life coach).
The understanding of these two invisible “true” pillars will give you a new social life. Just by correcting your active body language and your “listening face” you can completely change the way women perceive you.
Quick Assignment: Next time you’re on a date, use your body language to react to her and your facial expressions to emote an important point in convesation. And if you’re paying close enough attention to her, you’ll be able to read her facial and body language signals.
New York Dating Coach
If you would like to work with Coach Antonia, you can request free dating consultation here or call us at 646-862-1784 to set it up.