Greetings and Welcome to OC_CApolyamory. We're glad you stopped by!
Thank you for checking the site. At this time we are not taking applications for new members. The next opening for applications will be March 1. Please apply at that time and the next Poly 101 lecture for new or renewing members will be March 22 from 4:30-6:00. Please read on to gain information on the group to see if it may be a match for you.
If you are polyamorous,
a poly-friendly spouse, partner or friend...
Then this Meetup aims to support and educate you in this unique and rewarding lovestyle. You must be 18 or older to be a member in this meet up. If you are poly curious and would like to learn more about this lifestyle you may want to attend our monthly poly 101 lecture to gain some information.
What We Offer
A safe, sex-positive resource for men and women (residing in Orange, Los Angeles and Riverside counties) of all genders, races and sexual orientations to meet and relate to like-minded friends;
A poly 101 presentation (typically the fourth Sunday every other month) to people who may or may not want to join the group but who are interested in the topic or have questions (all applicants must go to a poly 101 presentation) Next presentation Poly 101, March 22nd by Dr. Sandy Peace. There is a 15$ charge to attend the presentation.
Social gatherings for adults and their poly-friendly guests, including happy hours, potluck dinners, themed parties and outdoor activities;
Multiple family-friendly events which are open to children of all ages;
An educational lecture series presented by poly-aware professionals.
A Poly Ladies' Group for occasional Girls' Night Out opportunities;
What We Don't Offer
A shelter for those who are unethically non-monogamous
If you are a cheating spouse or partner looking for support in your duplicity by looking to polyamory as the answer to your relationship problems, this is not the group for you.
Orgies, swing/cuddle parties, or matchmaking events
While we welcome those who are currently uncoupled, coupled (or tripled, or more!) to our group to meet new people and make friendly connections, we are not a dating or hook-up group.
What We Require of Our Prospective and Current Members
1. Prospective members:
All applicants must attend a poly 101 orientation group and an informal interview. Also if you are being referred to this group from a group member or one of the poly professionals the group works with, include the information. Please include a G-rated photo in your application - applicants who submit nude torso shots or otherwise sexually graphic photos will be denied entry to the group, *no second chances*. Save the naked bathroom selfies for Fetlife and Adult Friend Finder, please!
a. Irrelevant or one-word answers (such as "N/A") to the brief questionnaire will result in a rejection of your application. You don't have to write a novel, but we would appreciate some thought into your request to join. If you have a question about the context of the questionnaire before answering it, it's best to reach out to the group's leadership team via e-mail first, before submitting a partially completed application.
2. Prospective members:
Please agree to allow one of our organizers to contact you by phone to inquire a bit more about your interests in polyamory, and our group in general. Upon submission of your application, someone will be contacting you by e-mail to ask for an appropriate time of day to call you, and will conduct a 5-10 minute phone call to go over any questions you may have about this group, and how we might best support your interests. We do this for two reasons:
a. To quickly deter cheaters or other disingenuous members
b. To promote a diverse and energetic Meetup roster
3. All members:
Please commit to attend at least one Meetup event per quarter. The whole concept of hosting a Meetup is just that - to meet up! :-) Those who do not consistently participate in the group (or repeatedly no-show to events to which they previously RSVP'd as YES) are subject to removal from the group for inactivity.
As you enter and/or evolve within the polyamorous lifestyle, you'll find that that there is no perfect poly relationship. As such, this group exists for its
members to learn from each other and share their experiences of what has worked for them, while respecting the choices of others.
We look forward to your membership, and thank you for your interest!