I have decided that as many people join OxfordNightsOut but then are either completely or mostly inactive, I will start deleting profile of anyone who doesn't RSVP at least once per month for scheduled events. That doesn't mean that you can't then rejoin and recreate your profile again. However, anyone who in each calendar month hasn't RSVPed in last 28 days for an event will then have their profile deleted.
There's no point in trying to make OxfordNightsOut succeed unless one commits to making the same effort I do, to RSVP and attend events. Events won't ever succeed unless enough people commit to take part. OxfordNightsOut isn't meant to be a facebook style community page nor a dating site. It's specifically meant to encourage singles to take part in local events and thereby meet new people.
I hope you will understand my reasons therefore for deleting any non active members.