Social & Emotional intelligence, Dating tips & Female Psychology, Body Language & Sub-communication, Physical escalation & Seduction 

Seduce the MIND, the rest shall follow

According to Robert Brown’s The Art of Seduction, Seducers have a warrior outlook on life. They see each person as walled castle to which they are laying siege. Seduction is a process of penetration: initially penetrating the first line of defense. Once seducers have penetrated the mind, making the target fantasize about them, it is easier to lower the resistance and create physical surrender. Seducers do not improvise, they do not leave this process to chance. Like any good general, they plan and strategize, aiming at the targets particular weakness.

It is in this way that Marilyn Monroe, Hitler, Casanova, Andy Warhol, and even Cleopatra stirred such noise among their admirers. Seduce the MIND, the rest shall follow. Master the art of poeticizing your presence, re-invent yourself, and create confusion. You will thank me later!!!

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 Welcome to PUA LONDON where confidence and self-belief are our expertise, helping you be the best version of yourself.  

The Reason for being here

“This is lame, reading books on how to talk to women!?”

I’ve got an answer to that; remember last week when you saw that gorgeous girl and you only wished to have had an easier chance with her? How does it feel? I know how it feels when you see someone so desirable and immediately put her on out-of-league list, and move on with next daily routine.

But believe me, if you only spare few more seconds and think for one moment, what would it be like to be with that woman, imagine her scent, her presence at your home, on your sofa cuddled up while watching TV… do I need to list more?...

The truth is we all are successful at something, great at our jobs, sport, family etc, but we also have blind-spots, every human being has a blind-spot somewhere where they wish they could improve.

Don’t just ignore it because it’s a weakness, do something about it!

Ok, whilst you are reading this , first of all proves that you want more out of life, especially on the dating side, but with that in mind don’t we all want more?

Yes, but we want it to come to us, right? Hmm well from my experience, nothing came to me just like that, I had to work for it directly or indirectly, I had to do something about it.

It’s not easy! I’m not going to lie; it is probably one of the hardest skills to master because it requires strong commitment and a lot of practice. BUT I should also say that it is the most rewarding skill you can have, it will enrich your life beyond your imagination!

Opportunities 

Life gives us opportunities from different angles, shapes and forms every day, but do we see them? Do we seize them?

We only see the obvious ones and we take advantage of approximately 25% of them. So my question is; how fast would you get where you want to get in life by only taking approximately 0.5% of overall of the opportunities that you encounter every day?  

Social intelligence (Intuition) 

'Social Intelligence is an aggregated measure of self and social awareness, evolved social beliefs and attitudes, and a capacity and appetite to manage complex social change' - Ross Honeywill

Social-Intelligence is one of the most important skills that you need to succeed in life, but unfortunately neither our parents nor teachers have ever taught us about this very important aspect of life.

However, everybody is raised in a different way, some in a more social environment and some with less people around them, it wasn’t our choice.

As we grow up, most of us feel the desire for high quality women as we encounter them every day, but we never seem to handle those opportunities, let alone creating them!... I am talking about those gorgeous women that make guys turn their heads and drop their jaws.

Bear in mind though, that somebody is sleeping with those women, somebody and probably not remotely as decent as you, but yes those stunning women are being seduced all the time.

A question you should ask yourselves; why not by me ?

Thankfully for some great minds that took the hard way to prove to us that this amazing skill can be learnt, so now we all can have those amazing women, as long as we make the effort to change ourselves for better and be the best version of ourselves, while living a life of our own design.

Emotional intelligence (Inner Game) 

TBA soon...

PUA

PUA is not e very warm word to be honest; I have always preferred the ‘Venusian Artist’ title, because it is an Art which can be learnt and mastered. This is a type of Art will change your life for better, forever.

Here are few subjects you might have heard about:

 “ I want to learn how to interact with woman naturally” - I’ve heard this sentence may times, but guess what I hear even more often?

“I teach guys the ‘Natural’ game", the way to be them selves and naturally interact and attract gorgeous women” – Ha, really?! Is there a formula to just turns you into a natural social machine?! I doubt it; no actually I am certain that it does NOT exist.

In order to become a Natural, you need to go through some tough times (uncomfortable situations) to get there.

Bad Boy Identity 

You’ve heard the expression 'nice guys come last'.  To a certain extent this is true. Why do the bad boys get the gorgeous girls even though they don’t have 2 brain cells to rub together? There are ways of adopting the characteristics of a bad-boy but still remaining a good guy - we understand the key dynamics that occur and will talk you through it.

Right way to learn the Game

(This ‘Game’ is a metaphor for social life)

Majority of guys try to learn the game in very short time and want to seduce a '10' next week. It doesn’t work that way, and you certainly won’t become a great lover that quick.

Saying that, it is not just about knowing what to say, it’s about knowing how to say it and be spontaneous about it, as well as how to telegraph messages non-verbally. Spontaneity & Enthusiasm are contagious in the field of any social interaction.  

However, ‘You cannot learn how to drive by reading about it. Like every other skill, practice makes perfect!

Try and learn this skill a bit at a time... if you think it is not going well at the moment, take a couple of weeks off reading and off thinking about it, sometime you need to relax to absorb information, then get back to practice, not reading! Only practice will make you internalise this beautiful skill.

Approach sub-communication

(Approaching with Balls) 

What this means is that when you walk up to a girl, she is bound to respond, because what you sub-communicate to her is: “ I dare you to not to talk to me ” and maintaining that frame, will telegraph that you have balls, and you must be high value male to be so confident. (Here you get instant attraction)

Three second Rule; If you leave it too long, the negative visualization begins. INSTEAD , use positive visualization and really DO NOT give a shit.

Also as a follow up, you should not be affected whatsoever, being un-reactive is a huge quality.   

You have to be aware of what you are thinking . You can say the best line in the world and when you are thinking “I really hope you talk to me because I want you badly ” she will sense this and reject you. (This is where guys that are ok with women differ from the guys that are really good with women)

You should instead have the following belief before you approach:  you should be thinking: I am so charming that you can’t reject me, I dare you to reject me, go ahead try me.  ( She will see this in your sub-text )  

As a thank you for being a member of PUA London,  I will be holding a free one to one session with every single one of you. Come to our next meetup and we will arrange it then.

Many thanks and regards

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Brief Bio

I work as a professional Approach Coach for Love Systems, the biggest dating company in the world, located in Los Angeles – www.LoveSystems.com

As a result, I work closely with best Dating Instructors in the world such as VERCETTI, VENTURE, KEYCHAIN, CAJUN, BRADDOCK, DAX and Mr. M.

As for my life experience, I have been a Venusian Artist for over 4 years and it has changed my life such as it has changed lifes of my friends and many guys around the world. I must say; prior to that, I have learned it through the hard way! I didn’t have all the available material and seminars that you guys have, at least I didn’t know there were any.

My friend and I have spent countless hours while backward rationalizing our performance throughout nights out. We did this three to four nights a week for nearly 6 years.

Today I am happy to share my knowledge and experience with you, because what I love the most is when I make people realise their full potential and help them be the best version of themselves.   

For any question about DATING & COURTSHIP from attraction to seduction and relationships, please email us on socially.intelligent@gmail.com