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Don J.


San Jose, CA

Member since:

September 10, 2012

Tell us something about your experience with polyamory.

My first polyamorous experience was back in 1981, before we had the word. My current partner and I have been together polyamorously for about ten years.

Could you name some benefits of being in community with persons who share your interests and values?

Mutual support, both emotionally with the general community and combining resources/reducing redundancy in a household.

Could you name some benefits to meeting potential partners by introduction through friends?

Friends (including those who are or were lovers) would be able to recommend people who are compatible with one's personality and style.


Greetings! I'm currently living in a polyamorous household with my partner and her OSO (who is with us half time). In the past, I hosted the Second Wednesday South Bay Poly Dinner.

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