Realities Singles is a group of genuinely kind and considerate (not to mention fun!) single people who are interested in meeting other good people as potential partners!

This group is for people aged 18 or over.

Location: L.A. and surrounding cities.

Our events include: pub/club/bar socials; karaoke evenings; themed house parties; speed-dating; and hikes.

In an effort to be true to our group's philosophy, anyone joining us must agree to the following statement: "In all aspects of my life, I strive to be kind, considerate, tolerant, and friendly to everyone that I come into contact with (regardless of their ethnic group, religion, nationality, income, musical tastes, or culinary skills)."

If you agree to this (non-legally-binding) affirmation, please click on the Join Us button, enter a brief introductory blurb, and upload a photo of yourself!

Thank you, and I look forward to seeing you soon!


P.S. If you like the idea of going out on dates right away, you might also want to check out my group, "PRACTICE DATING!"

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  • April 25 · 10:00 AM

    Beach Walk!

    15 Realities Singles | 5.00

    Beach Walk! Join us for a beautiful, sunny, weekend walk along Santa Monica Beach! From the end of Ocean Park Blvd we'll walk south along the boardwalk to that wonderful... Learn more
  • January 10 · 7:00 PM

    Photo-Shoot For Vegetarians & Vegans!

    14 Realities Singles | 5.00

    Vegetarian & Vegan Photo-Shoot! (To sign up for this event, please click here.) Many of you already know that as well as being a dating coach and singles group organizer... Learn more
  • January 3 · 10:00 AM

    It's 2015 Hike!

    25 Realities Singles | 5.00 | 1 Photo

    It's 2015 Hike! Whatever your New Year's resolutions might be, this short hike is a perfect opportunity to start off 2015 in a really fun, healthy, and positive way! (... Learn more
  • December 13, 2014 · 10:00 AM

    Baldwin Hills Scenic Overlook Hike!

    17 Realities Singles | 5.00

    Scenic Overlook Hike! (I'll be bringing along a number of other people from Culver City Hiking Club.) The Baldwin Hills Scenic Overlook is a very attractive network of... Learn more
  • November 15, 2014 · 7:00 PM

    Dating Proficiency Course - Before The First Date

    21 Realities Singles | 5.00

    Dating Proficiency Course - Before the First Date This 3-module course is for people who are really serious about being the best possible daters they can be. It's for... Learn more
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