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Little White Lies and Dating

  • Jan 23, 2014 · 5:45 PM
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This week we will continue where the thread about lying began

Here are just some of the highlights: 

"Why the need to lie? Do these people really think the truth won't come out later? Hmm, you lied about your age, what else are you lying about?"

"Integrity starts with the little things in my book. He should know you can't fool a women on something like that!" 

"Well. My experience is that people are afraid. Once I meet them their age, weight, looks ect is different from stated. His experience is probably once a lady knows his age they pass on by his profile and put him in the nursing home category."

"I would have preferred for the 65 year old to have 'fessed up during our breakfast, instead of me just silently thinking he looks older than 58. He specifically told me he turns 59 in a few weeks, so a blatant misrepresentation like that is a deal breaker."

"When a woman lies we (men) smile acceptingly in hopes of lavish affection to follow. Like sweat women do not lie but "glisten"."

"Absolutely consider motives and a small lie is the same as a big lie, etc., but the lesson here is about letting go of "shoulds" and expectations and experience the lesson for the day/week/month."

"We are all one here together. Love is the only truth and all that matters. All else is illusion."

As per usual we know dating and relationships are not black and white. We'll dive into the grey area more during this meeting and how to navigate the tough stuff.

We will continue to reference the law of attraction to bring into our life the very thing our heart desires most. We will also continue to reference the POWER VS FORCE CHART and the Brene’ Brown Research on SHAME. So for you new attendees, you might want to check out these links prior to our meeting.

Everyone enjoyed the new location last night so we will plan on the meetings here going forward. The Knolls Clubhouse at 3400 E Geddes Drive Centennial, CO 80122  (approximately 4.8 miles west of the PGA Super Store). 

This Meetup is for everyone regardless of your "relationship status".  If your baggage doesn't fit neatly in an overhead compartment, or you can't seem to attract those who have baggage you can lift with one hand, please join us and be open to exploring a relaxed way to show up in your relationships.

$10.00/meeting pay online or at the door PLEASE RSVP. Includes pizza, drinks, sweets, and new tools for understanding the opposite sex and LOTS of laughs.  Bring an open mind and heart.


 

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  • Wendy M.

    thanks everyone - it was a great discussion

    January 24, 2014

  • marcia

    what an insightful/inspiring evening discussion! thanks to lisa, gary and all who were there.

    January 23, 2014

    • Lisa M.

      Thanks for sharing your experience. It began the wonderful process....

      January 23, 2014

  • Elaine G.

    Sorry -- after all, I won't be there -- change in child care plans tomorrow night. Sorry to miss what will surely be a fascinating conversation!

    January 22, 2014

    • Lisa M.

      Take care and see you soon!

      January 23, 2014

  • Rich D.

    After all my comments, and now I've decided to go to my/a Patent/Inventors meeting. My favorite highlight of this discussion was "We all lie about "something" who's judging who to "cast the first stone" at the other.." or something like that. See you later.

    January 20, 2014

    • Lisa M.

      We'll miss your input Rich. See you next time!

      January 22, 2014

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