Mystical Side of Death and Dying through the eyes of a "Cross-Over"­ guide

This FREE lecture will touch upon my (Tyler's) experience's as a non-religious person working as a Hospice Volunteer. I was no ordinary volunteer. I was born with the ability to act as a “cross-over" guide. This was not something that was in any way encouraged by the organization I worked for.

A Cross-Over Guide is one who has the ability to help a person at the end of their life meet up with friends, family, loved ones who have already passed. My job was to show people their way home to the “other side,” whatever that means. I did not need to be with them at the exact moment of their passing.

I don't claim to KNOW, you are not required to BELIEVE in anything I relay. I'm just here to tell my story, my truths of what I experienced both on a personal level and how it has impacted my life, why I needed to stop. It's taking me years to process all that I have experienced.

This will be my first lecture in over 8 years. It's time to tell my story once again and again and again.

Question and answer time at the lectures end.

Bring yourself, friends, family, loved ones.

There is no catch, nothing to buy, nothing being sold.

PLEASE Feel free to cross-post this with other groups

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  • Jorge M.

    Thanks for the meeting. Time was short on this interesting topic. What Tyler probably didn't tell us is that entities that he so welcoming newcomers have their own personality, just as human beings have. So, laughter is the language of Angels.

    3 · January 4, 2014

    • Jorge M.

      I meant "... he *saw welcoming..."

      1 · January 5, 2014

  • A former member
    A former member

    I enjoyed the stories & sharing & listening to comments from others as well

    3 · January 5, 2014

  • Tyler

    I thank you all for attending. I hope you all got a little bit of positive insight through my stories and through the sharing of others. A special thanks to my daughter Isabele for helping me out when needed.

    2 · January 3, 2014

  • Deeny O.

    It gave me comfort. My husband was the first in his family to die. Nice to know that there were others there to welcome him even though I couldn't see him. Validated the feeling I had when my new granddaughter died shortly after birth. I was holding her while my son was with her mother at another hospital. My son had asked me to "take care of her" since they were removing the medical devices. He then went to be with her mother. When she died I felt that she was going from my arms to his. Comforting.

    4 · January 3, 2014

    • Tyler

      Thank you for sharing.

      1 · January 3, 2014

  • Heidi S.

    Really appreciated everybody's willingness to share very personal experiences with death and dying.

    2 · January 3, 2014

    • Tyler

      And thank you for you input when I redirected questions to ask your opinion.

      January 3, 2014

  • Tammy W.

    Enjoyed it. I RSVP'd before having a clue my Mother was going to pass away suddenly, mostly out of curiosity. But because her passing was so recent, I found this comforting and validating. Thanks for sharing Tyler and those that participated!

    1 · January 3, 2014

    • Tyler

      You are most welcome

      January 3, 2014

  • A former member
    A former member

    As always Tyler very entertaining & informative.

    5 · January 3, 2014

    • Tyler

      Thank you for the kind words

      January 3, 2014

  • Terry

    I didn't like the attemts at humor. I left early.

    January 3, 2014

    • Renee P.

      Death is a part of life. Humor is good for the soul, the living and the dead; but especially important for the living. I didn't think he was making fun of death at all, he was expressing his experiences with a sense of humor to connect with us and to make his presentation more human. Life is good, laugh on. When I die I still want to have my sense of humor. Just my opinion.

      3 · January 3, 2014

    • Tyler

      Humor is part of my life. To give a lecture on any topic without humor would not be who I am. That's ok that you felt you had to leave and miss out on what others felt as being beneficial. Renee's comment says it best.

      3 · January 3, 2014

  • Renee P.

    Very good. I enjoyed everyone's experiences and had some validation to some of my own experiences. Thank you!

    1 · January 3, 2014

    • Tyler

      I'm glad you enjoyed yourself and found validation.

      January 3, 2014

  • A former member
    A former member

    Wonderful! This gathering was everything I hoped it would be -- and more. Thanks, Tyler and Isabel!

    1 · January 2, 2014

    • Tyler

      I'm glad you came Sherrie. Both Isabele and I had a blast with the lecture.

      1 · January 3, 2014

  • Diane

    Thank you Tyler for sharing your experiences. Also, Thank You to the others in the group who share theirs.....

    2 · January 3, 2014

    • Diane

      Oops...to those who - shared- their experiences.

      1 · January 3, 2014

    • Tyler

      You are welcome Diane. Thank you for attending.

      1 · January 3, 2014

  • A former member
    A former member

    Thanks Tyler. Very interesting.

    3 · January 2, 2014

    • Tyler

      It was great seeing you Janice. Glad you enjoyed

      1 · January 2, 2014

  • Leanne

    Thank you, Tyler! So interesting and validating!

    2 · January 2, 2014

    • Tyler

      you are welcome!

      1 · January 2, 2014

  • Dawn Ratzsch R.

    I really enjoyed your talk tonight. Keep in touch we can have cookies.

    1 · January 2, 2014

    • Tyler

      yes, plenty of cookies

      2 · January 2, 2014

  • Renee P.

    Running a little late...

    January 2, 2014

  • Ron B.

    A schedule conflict came up at the last minute. I would REALLY like to catch the next one though.

    January 2, 2014

  • Jeannett

    Down with the flu

    January 2, 2014

    • Tyler

      Feel better!

      2 · January 2, 2014

    • Jeannett

      Thanks for your thoughts

      1 · January 2, 2014

  • A former member
    A former member

    Does this start at 7p,m or 8pm? I have two different times showing up in the reminder notices, most say 7pm, another says 8-11pm.
    Please advise.
    Thanks!

    January 2, 2014

    • A former member
      A former member

      7pm :)

      2 · January 2, 2014

  • Jorge M.

    Tyler, it is nice to know about people that can talk about this nice intuitive gifts!

    January 2, 2014

  • Deeny O.

    I want to learn more to prepare for my own death, and for my family. I have a strong faith but cannot fanthom death of a person who is here one day and gone the next.

    December 30, 2013

    • A former member
      A former member

      Unless otherwise?

      2 · January 1, 2014

    • Tyler

      Some people believe once you're gone, you're gone. "Otherwise" may be tailored into ones own belief system.

      1 · January 2, 2014

  • Becky

    I work until 7 & could not get there until 7:30. Is it ok to show up this late? How long will your talk last? I am new to the group & interested ...

    January 1, 2014

    • A former member
      A former member

      I'll be a bit late as well, Becky. But I'm not about to let that stop me1

      3 · January 1, 2014

    • Tyler

      Better late than never. I'll be sharing several stories and will probably talk for an hour or so before letting others share.

      1 · January 2, 2014

  • A former member
    A former member

    Sounds very intriguing.

    December 30, 2013

  • Becky

    Bring my daughter & possibly a friend

    1 · December 28, 2013

    • Tyler

      I look forward to having you all.

      1 · December 29, 2013

  • Beverly L.

    I'm looking forward, and am bringing a friend.

    December 28, 2013

    • Tyler

      The more the merrier.

      1 · December 28, 2013

  • Isabele "Bella" R.

    Hey dad-o-mine!! So excited to go to this! Let me know if you need any help with planning and/or presenting :) I can bring my cards ;)

    1 · December 12, 2013

    • Tyler

      I'm excited that you'll be attending. Sure, bring the "CARDS."

      2 · December 12, 2013

  • Utah H.

    Looking forward to this lecture.

    December 6, 2013

    • Tyler

      and I'm looking forward to presenting it.

      1 · December 6, 2013

  • Linda Bertoch A.

    I would like to bring a friend.

    November 30, 2013

    • Tyler

      Sure, bring a friend. The meeting room holds a lot of people

      1 · December 2, 2013

  • Gary S.

    Could you share some reference materials about Cross Over Guides prior to the event so that attendees who desire may read up on the processes involved?

    December 1, 2013

    • Tyler

      Very good suggestion, yet I do not have any material specifically about Cross-Over guides. We are diverse in our style as the many flavors of coffee. I'll see what I can brew up.

      1 · December 1, 2013

  • wesley

    Id like to attend but Thursday evenings are bad for me, if you do this again please let me know

    November 30, 2013

    • Tyler

      I'm sure I'll give another lecture around spring time.

      2 · December 1, 2013

  • A former member
    A former member

    I would be very interested if you do this another time. (1/2 is my daughter's birthday)

    November 30, 2013

    • Tyler

      Time keeps moving forward, enjoy your daughters birthday.

      1 · December 1, 2013

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