Comments about our newsletter "The Odyssey" at www.SinglesOdyssey.org

A former member	Posted Aug 22, 2009 7:01 PM Link to this discussion
Post #: 1	Got something to say about the latest edition of "The Odyssey?" We welcome your comments and this is the place! We love your feed back and ideas...keep them coming! Edited by User 10,226,098 on Apr 27, 2010 2:18 AM
Randi	Posted Aug 23, 2009 4:38 PM Link to this reply
user 8274439 Yorba Linda, CA Post #: 1	Emily I loved your scoop! So many of my girlfriends are cougars, when we go out I'm almost embarrassed for them because of the way they dress, can you shout CLEAVAGE! I'm not a cougar, anymore, I married my younger man and found the sex is great but the conversation is lacking, not enough in common.. Thank you for your tidbits of wisdom, I'm passing your article on to them in hopes they can read between the lines..
Emily N.	Posted Aug 23, 2009 10:22 PM Link to this reply
user 5950057 Costa Mesa, CA Post #: 18	Thank you Randi for your feed back & wonderful comments. I sincerely appreciate you taking the time to let me hear from you. I hope your friends can wake up to the facts as they are. The wisest words of wisdom for women of any age is "leave something to their imagination; it will work in your favor." Good luck to you with your dilemma. I hope you can work it out. Emily
Ken	Posted Aug 23, 2009 11:13 PM Link to this reply
user 6627619 Group Organizer Irvine, CA Post #: 10	As a guy, let me tell you, that quote is WAY true. Sure we all like to see the eye candy, but when we're interested in a woman vs. a play thing we don't want to see it all right up front and at once along with the rest of the world. Ask your friends, "Which do YOU want to be, A Woman or a Play Thing?" Edited by Ken on Aug 24, 2009 2:12 AM
leslie parris	Posted Aug 24, 2009 7:37 AM Link to this reply
user 9280299 Irvine, CA Post #: 1	Darling: Women don't have to be cougars to dress badly and I resent being given instructions on how to dress and act my age. I love wearing sexy clothes and have no problem attracting men of all ages. One important point that men often don't tell women is that they like women to dress like they like sex. Ever hear of a black widow? Man killers, each one of them, and they don't dress like they're going to meet somebody's mother either.
Emily N.	Posted Aug 24, 2009 10:19 AM Link to this reply
user 5950057 Costa Mesa, CA Post #: 19	Leslie, I agree very much with you. Age has nothing to do with how "badly" a woman dresses. My words/opinions/views were not meant to be taken as offensive. I have seen women of all ages dressed VERRRRY SEXY....and yet they still maintained their classy lady like and yes sexy status. However, there is a big difference between sexy VS. slutty/gross OMG turn off clothing. Every man I know & spoke to and/or received emails from all agreed on that point. Yes, men do like women to dress as if sex is important and wanted by them. It is all a matter of the degree and taste in the message the woman is putting out. Sexy has been and always will be used as a bait. I thank you for reading the "Scoop". I am ALWAYS interested in hearing from our readers. I hope you continue reading and giving me your feedback, it is so appreciated. Emily Edited by Emily N. on Aug 24, 2009 10:20 AM
Ken	Posted Aug 24, 2009 11:33 AM Link to this reply
user 6627619 Group Organizer Irvine, CA Post #: 11	Yes, that's the difference I was trying (badly) to draw. No one is saying you should come out with a Moo-Moo and dress like Aunt Marge. Sexy is one thing, but slutty is entirely different. Leslie, I have seen you at a few events in the past. You ARE a very sexy woman and dress that way. I've NEVER seen you looking slutty (at least in my humble opinion).
Emily N.	Posted Oct 3, 2009 10:53 AM Link to this reply
user 5950057 Costa Mesa, CA Post #: 22	Ken......loved your "Scoop". It is so refreshing to see you ramble on paper and not just to me!! LOL!! GREAT JOB!!
allen	Posted Oct 3, 2009 12:16 PM Link to this reply
user 7486349 Torrance, CA Post #: 1	Great ideas Ken. Well expressed. Would be nice if more of us took them to heart, but with age doesn't necessarily come wisdom. When one's "List" becomes very long & "everything" has equal importance, NO ONE will ever be good enough and this will assure that one will NEVER be hurt again. SAD but TRUE for many of the 50-60 age crowd.
Emily N.	Posted Oct 3, 2009 1:14 PM Link to this reply
user 5950057 Costa Mesa, CA Post #: 23	You made some very good points. However, a fear of commitment has no age limits. I know of some people who have it and they are not anywhere near the 50's bracket. I see it as people not being willing to reach out and or let others reach in to them. Loving another is a joy being loved back is that joy being magnified.

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