Whittier, CA

Member since:

September 24, 2012


Your answers will be visible to everyone. This is like a resume to tell the other members what you are looking for. This is NOT a "swingers" group so please reflect this in your answer. What does the word polyamory mean to you?

Looking to make new friends who understand the poly lifestyle and can relate to some of the difficulties. Polyamory for me is the opportunity to explore more happiness with relationships that let you find untapped areas of your life.

Why did you join the polyamory meetup group?

My social group has slimmed over the last 10 years and I would like to find more people in the local area to hangout with, who won't judge my lifestyle choices hopefully. Lots of friends online, via twitter and such, but not quite the same as IRL socializing.

Are you currently involved in a poly relationship? How many individuals in your "tribe"?

Currently married and have been poly for close to 20 years. I also currently have one girlfriend who I recently reconnected with. If you count both of my partners boyfriends we added up to 5 currently.

Do you have any children? What are their ages? (helps in planning activities)

Yes, father of 3 boys, ranging for 6 to 14. They definitely keep us busy, but couldn't imagine life without them.

What would your ideal poly relationship look like?

I'm not sure, since I'm still adjusting to a recent breakup. I know what I would have said 18 months ago, but I don't think I really know as well now.


Hi, I'm Fred, happily married and father of 3 boys. Living in Whittier, CA. Approaching 40 and trying to figure out my place in life sometimes. Hobbies include games and photography.

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