March 3, 2010
Relationships that are not in the traditional monogamous mode (with all its assumptions and, often, lies and betrayals). Relationships where love and sex are not exclusive to one partner, where all are honest and compersion replaces jealousy.
Because there's no poly equivalent to the gaydar.
I've been in an open partnership with a wonderful bi man since 1996 (married since 2000). I also have had a serious relationship with my dear friend for almost four years.
One son, age 11.
Like my life right now. I have a wonderful marriage and I am equally committed to my dear friend.
I'm 47, a petite and slim female person who's smart, outgoing and hardworking. I'm cooperative rather than competitive, I'm good at putting people at ease, and I have an offbeat sense of humor.