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Liz S.


Pasadena, CA

Member since:

March 3, 2010

Your answers will be visible to everyone. This is like a resume to tell the other members what you are looking for. This is NOT a "swingers" group so please reflect this in your answer. What does the word polyamory mean to you?

Relationships that are not in the traditional monogamous mode (with all its assumptions and, often, lies and betrayals). Relationships where love and sex are not exclusive to one partner, where all are honest and compersion replaces jealousy.

Why did you join the polyamory meetup group?

Because there's no poly equivalent to the gaydar.

Are you currently involved in a poly relationship? How many individuals in your "tribe"?

I've been in an open partnership with a wonderful bi man since 1996 (married since 2000). I also have had a serious relationship with my dear friend for almost four years.

Do you have any children? What are their ages? (helps in planning activities)

One son, age 11.

What would your ideal poly relationship look like?

Like my life right now. I have a wonderful marriage and I am equally committed to my dear friend.


I'm 47, a petite and slim female person who's smart, outgoing and hardworking. I'm cooperative rather than competitive, I'm good at putting people at ease, and I have an offbeat sense of humor.

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