Rich and J.


Bakersfield, CA
Hometown: Bakersfield

Member since:

September 12, 2012

Your answers will be visible to everyone. This is like a resume to tell the other members what you are looking for. This is NOT a "swingers" group so please reflect this in your answer. What does the word polyamory mean to you?

We're good with the Wikipedia definition:) Polyamory (from Greek πολύ [poly, meaning many or several] and Latin amor/love) is the practice, desire, or acceptance of having more than one intimate relationship at a time with the knowledge and consent of everyone involved.

Why did you join the polyamory meetup group?

We're interested in meeting others like ourselves for support, continued education and social activities.

Are you currently involved in a poly relationship? How many individuals in your "tribe"?

I'm not sure we'd call ourselves a tribe, but each member of this primary couple has intimate relationships with others separately and shared. If you add up all the individuals we're about 7 strong.

Do you have any children? What are their ages? (helps in planning activities)

NKJD (No kids, just dogs)

What would your ideal poly relationship look like?

It would be nice to find individuals - a couple or single - who would be interested in developing and investing in a long term relationship, perhaps leading to cohabitation, or at least group vacations. The husband is only interested in women (and seriously particular about body type.) The wifey is a lot more flexible - anything that moves:)


We are a fun loving, down to earth couple. We are very active and always on the go. We've been in the lifestyle for many years. He is totally straight. She is very bi. We enjoy meeting new friends and exploring new experiences.

What Rich and J. is saying about this Meetup Group

It's warm and welcoming. A nice way to spend a Saturday night.

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