December 1, 2012
Being free to connect and love more than 1 person in your life, honestly.
Polyamory seems to be built on honesty, communication and trust. All of which I hold dear and aspire to be better in. I’m poly curious. My girlfriend has opened my mind to the idea. It seems plausible to love more than 1 person at a time. Actually, now that I think about it, it seems unlikely that you wouldn’t. The world needs more love, not less. People are eternal souls, holy and worthy of love. A spiritual guide I like once said, “Civilizations will rise and fall, even this earth will one day be pass away but you and I will live forever and that makes us more Holy than any "thing" we come in contact with in a day.” This belief guides my life. It is the prism through which I view the world. The same spiritual guide also said, "You don't have a soul. You are a soul. You have a body." I like that idea too. The only thing I would add is “preferably... a nice one" because I like nice bodies but that’s because I’m shallow ;-)
Not yet. I'm with someone I care deeply for and we both realize poly is, at it's core, more honest than the alternative but we haven't jumped in yet.
Not sure. I think an ideal transition would be for us to meet a beautiful, thoughtful, caring, bi or bi-curious, poly woman. Her fantasy is for us to bring a woman into our lovemaking but I didn't believe her at 1st. Thought it was a test. What can I say? My conditioning is pretty traditional. But she brought up again and convinced me she has no ulterior motive. She's just attracted to women too and wants to explore that safely, with me. Not sure if it's ok to share this. I hope it's not offensive. I just want to be honest and it seems like keeping this motive to myself would be wrong. I'm a mans man, an ex pro athlete but I like to think I'm more capable mentally than I ever was physically. She's a beautiful soul, pretty eyes, a great smile, a gorgeous body and a mind so sexy you'll want to suck on her brain candy for weeks!!! She's a kind person at heart but, make no mistake, there are many sides to her. Filled with just right amount of darkness and light. I'd like to think... me too