Re: [SouthAustin-Friends-and-Fun] Drinking and Happy hour

From: Heidi K.
Sent on: Saturday, January 28, 2012 9:31 AM
Well, Joan, now you have gone and opened up another can of worms!  Our group is from South Austin and is a platonic group not a dating group! 

Thanks for the conversation Joan and I wish you well.  Have a wonderful weekend!

Regards,
Heidi

 
 


--- On Sat, 1/28/12, Joan Brook <[address removed]> wrote:

From: Joan Brook <[address removed]>
Subject: Re: [SouthAustin-Friends-and-Fun] Drinking and Happy hour
To: [address removed]
Date: Saturday, January 28, 2012, 8:00 AM

Well, in that case, I succumb. I don't live in S. Austin, I'm ready to date with 1 committed partner, and I love sex!  Bye, y'all! :-)  
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From: Karen Palmer <[address removed]>
To: southaustin-friends-and-fun-list <[address removed]>
Sent: Sat, Jan 28,[masked]:13 am
Subject: Re: [SouthAustin-Friends-and-Fun] Drinking and Happy hour

Very well said Wayne.


From: Wayne <[address removed]>
To: [address removed]
Sent: Friday, January 27,[masked]:09 PM
Subject: Re: [SouthAustin-Friends-and-Fun] Drinking and Happy hour

Hi Kate,
 
While I am sympathetic to your situation and understand your comments I hope you won't misunderstand mine, and I speak strictly for myself.  When you accept a friend, you hopefully don't put conditions on them.  We meet as adults who usually enjoy an adult beverage while engaging in conversation.  We make the assumption that everyone will act responsibly and know their limits when it comes to alcohol.  If you know your limit to be zero then good for you.  I do however resent you imposing your morality and genetic predisposition for addition on our group.
 
There are hundreds of meetups in the greater Austin area, many of which are primarily involved in spiritual pursuits, athletics, woman's support groups and so on.  With all due respect, if you don't feel comfortable coming to where we meet or being around us when we drink, why are you complaining about it?  Just find a group that goes where you are comfortable, enjoy the menu there and converse about whatever you have in common with those people. 
 
I for one don't feel guilty about any of this.  Yours is the same sentiment that brought on Prohibition, another failed attempt at legalized morality by the way.  While I welcome alternative viewpoints and enjoy a good debate, frankly it doesn't sound like we have much in common except being in south Austin and the desire to be platonic friends.  Personally, I don't want you to come between me and my friends who I like just the way they are.
 
Please feel free to join us, or suggest alternative activities, but don't deride us for what we are doing.
 
Thanks just the same,
Wayne
 
 
 
In a message dated 1/27/2012 5:11:36 P.M. Central Standard Time, [address removed] writes:
Yes! I tried to ride with the Critical Mass groupies, but always ended up stopping to talk to the patrol officers who were chasing them.  This might be more my style!

 


From: Joan Brook <[address removed]>
To: [address removed]
Sent: Fri, January 27,[masked]:33:30 PM
Subject: Re: [SouthAustin-Friends-and-Fun] Drinking and Happy hour

Thanks Mike! You gave me just the motivation I needed! Be watching soon, folks, for the new Meetup group, A Vote for Austin Clean Air. My goal is to chart a course where everyone either bikes or rides a bus together to set locations. If interested, hit reply and I'll set it up! Joan
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From: Mike Miller <[address removed]>
Date: Fri, 27 Jan[masked]:04:00 -0500
Subject: Re: [SouthAustin-Friends-and-Fun] Drinking and Happy hour

Very good reply, Leticia! There are far fewer leaders than followers, but it's easy to change. I am a member of several meetup groups, and I simply say what, where, when, how, ....and I go do what I want to. Most times, people join me: Sometimes, it's just me doing something  I enjoy. And sometimes the response is overwhelming!
For those of you who have never tried this, try it soon. It might open up a whole new world for you, like it did for me.

Mike


From: Leticia <[address removed]>
To: [address removed]
Sent: Fri, January 27,[masked]:35:19 AM
Subject: Re: [SouthAustin-Friends-and-Fun] Drinking and Happy hour

Hello All --

For my own reasons, I am not comfortable in these places as well, but I thought I'd mention a few points that haven't been discussed. These kind of places might not be a good place for people who are recovering alcoholics, trying to watch what they eat, cannot afford to eat out a lot, etc. 

There, is however, a solution. 

One of the great things about this particular meet up group, is that anyone can place on the schedule a meet-up. So, for example, if I want to go walking on a Wednesday morning, I can put a date/time/place scheduled meet-up there and others can join me. Likewise, if I put one an hour later that says, "Breakfast at Kerby Lane" others can join that as well. 

There have been meet-ups for this group that include hiking, bowling, happy hours, and movie watching. Lately, the 'happy hour' group has been scheduling meet-ups, but that is not keeping others from doing likewise with their date/time/place/interest. 

So, if you'd like to see other meet-ups that don't involve drinking, may I suggest scheduling one about one to two weeks ahead of time and see who joins you. 

Thanks, 
Leticia


On Jan 26, 2012, at 2:44 PM, Kate wrote:

Hay Ya'll
 
Not to be condescending, but I would really like to know way so many of you feel you have to Drink to have a good time? I do not drink of any kind, and I can have a good time without drinking. I would love to join you all some social things. But since I do not drink, I don't feel comfortable join you at bars and taverns.
 
Sincerely,
 
Kate




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