Hi, Amazing Owners.
Is something going on in your life right now that scares you? Are you reacting to it? Here's an excerpt from Steve's book Fearless:
I get my Scrabble tiles out so I can see once again how graphically the two words creating and reacting have the same letters in them. I spell the word R, E, A, C, T, I, N, G, and now rearrange the same letters and spell C, R, E, A, T, I, N, G. When you rearrange what Hercule Poirot called your little grey cells, you, too, will go from reacting to creating.
He then goes on to talk about discovering that he had 280 e-mails to go through. If he reacted, he would just get overwhelmed & try to distract himself by watching t.v. Instead, he got creative & made 28 boxes--every time he answered 10 e-mails, he'd mark off a square:
Then, I take my colored marker and fill in the squares, one square for every ten emails answered. I fill those in and look at my checkerboard. I like it that three squares are now filled in! ...I'm no longer reacting to the overwhelm. I'm happily lost in the funhouse...games move life forward faster and they also give us a lot more energy.
At our next CF Meetup, we'll talk about how you can take something you're reacting to & get creative with it. Maybe you'll turn it into a game too, or maybe there's even something more creative we can figure out!
Then, we'll mastermind!
The Dallas CF Meetup is about taking ownership (rather than being a victim of circumstances). It is about learning to seize your power and live your life fearlessly.
Many of our members know the value of employing the ideas of Steve Chandler, our modern day Socrates. One of his ideas is that of acting as an "owner," hence you are called amazing owners.
Owners tend to become very successful in reaching goals, and surviving risks--this is useful in developing their fearlessness.
These secrets of becoming an owner & getting what you want include setting clear value-driven goals, taking consistent action steps, keeping your bigger vision in front of you, regular masterminding, getting therapy or coaching by a skilled and fearless therapist/coach (who is also in active coaching), surrounding yourself with positive people who are also working hard to reach goals, and attending inspiring personal growth workshops which help you to stay in focused action.
In our meetup, we offer a monthly masterminding session which has the undercurrent of Steve Chandler's principles running through it. Steve's principles are filled with fearless integrity, bold wisdom, and counter-intuitive brilliance.
If you've never masterminded, you will learn how at our monthly meetup. This is a very focused, intentional, and powerful process that has been used by success-oriented individuals since the 1930's. Napolean Hill wrote about the process in Think and Grow Rich, and it has been widely used by those who are plugged into courageous personal development and empowerment. Steve created the International Club Fearless Mastermind which inspired our group's initial formation. Jack Canfield, another of my teachers, considers masterminding to be one of the most powerful secrets to success and has taught me the process of successful masterminding, which I've blended with Steve's principles and am honored to share with YOU monthly.
One of the key components of is that the entire group will spend focused and concentrated energy on each member's specific goal for 5-10 minutes. Each member will get a chance for the group to be totally focused and committed to helping him or her.
Many folks get into fearless action & maintain momentum as a result of participating in masterminding, especially when they commit to regular participation.
So, do something fearless & do it soon--start by your immediate RSVP to our next meetup group!
Dr. Pam Garcy
If you are interested in Workshops with Dr. Pam, be on the lookout for more to come!
Dr. Pam also works with a select group of clients in coaching and therapy. A helpful time to inquire about whether she is accepting new clients is at the end of our meetup meetings, as Dr. Pam usually makes herself available to discuss this following our group.