He’s Just Not That Into You: Fact or Fiction?

Hi everyone, A quick search on Amazon produced the following: "What Women Wish You Knew about Dating: A Single Guy's Guide to Romantic Relationships"
"If I'm So Wonderful, Why Am I Still Single?: Ten Strategies That Will Change Your Love Life Forever"
"Make Every Man Want You: How to Be So Irresistible You'll Barely Keep from Dating Yourself!"
"Dirt on Dating, The (The Dirt)"
"Become Your Own Matchmaker: 8 Easy Steps for Attracting Your Perfect Mate"
"Little Black Book on Sex & Dating"
"He's Just Not That Into You: The No-Excuses Truth to Understanding Guys"

These are just a few examples of the “Dating” guides and books that are out there. And of course there are also the movies!

We’ve all read and/or seen at least one of these. (Yes, guys, it’s ok to admit it ;). Now here’s the real question: What do we make of all the information, tips, and rules presented? Is any of it good advice? We’ll discuss as much as we can! Please send me some of your favorite quotes, tips, rules, etc and come ready to join in a lively, wide-open discussion!

As always, we will be tapping into the greatest resource available: each other. Please come ready to share your honest thoughts and be prepared to listen! The information will be invaluable and genuine. In addition to learning, please remember that we are looking to have fun!
I look forward to seeing everybody and meeting new members! The event will be held at the upstairs level of Bradford's. Full bar and menu are available (pay as you go). Please feel free to stay after the discussion is over for a few drinks and socializing!

Bradfords is participating in Stamford Restaurant Week. Feel free to come by for dinner before the meetup. Menu: http://www.stamford-d...

**Please note: For this event, there will be a $3 entrance charge. This will help off-set administrative costs for running the group. Also, I strongly believe that a small charge will help reserve space for those members who are sincerely interested in the idea behind this group. Thanks for your understanding! Please RSVP, as space is limited! Best regards,
Matt

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  • A former member
    A former member

    Great topic and wonderful group participation. It was good to hear other peoples views.

    March 4, 2010

  • A former member
    A former member

    Good discussion and well organized.

    March 4, 2010

  • A former member
    A former member

    Good time. Nice meeting some new people.

    March 4, 2010

  • Matt L

    Thanks to everyone for coming out last night. Great discussion and appreciate all the feedback! -Matt

    March 4, 2010

  • A former member
    A former member

    It was fun to see so many people there, unfortunately I couldn't stay for the whole of it.

    March 4, 2010

  • Ronda

    Really interesting and a lot of fun. Looking forward to the next meetup

    March 4, 2010

  • A former member
    A former member

    it was interesting and nice to meet some new people. am looking forward to the next one.

    March 4, 2010

  • Linda

    It's great to hear the male perspective on dating and relationship topics. This is a great forum and a nice group of people.

    March 4, 2010

  • Liz

    Great group--really good discussion!

    March 4, 2010

  • A former member
    A former member

    Matt does a wonderful job keeping everyone involved and focused on the discussions. Nice people and had a nice time.

    March 4, 2010

  • A former member
    A former member

    Matt, per usual, stellar!

    March 4, 2010

  • A former member
    A former member

    I had a blast at this meetup. I'm glad my friend invited me to go. Everyone seemed open and honest. Cheers!

    March 3, 2010

  • A former member
    A former member

    The meetup structure was comfortable and Matt led the discussion nicely. I learned how other people think on issues pertaining to dating. It was fun.

    March 3, 2010

  • Matt L

    Hey everyone! This should be a fun one! Discussion will be wide open and I definitely think we can incorporate some of the ideas people have brought up over the past few days. Thanks for the posts and feedback! Keep it coming. Look forward to seeing everyone next week. Matt

    February 25, 2010

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We just grab a coffee and speak French. Some people have been coming every week for months... it creates a kind of warmth to the group.

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