Why we fail when we fail?...
My dear friends,
This is Anuj and I live in New Delhi, India. When I turned 30 Years Old, I took a break from life since I had run out of fuel and was totally exhausted. I mean I didn't have the energy and enthusiasm to continue the endless struggle that life was throwing at me over and over again. Now, please don’t take it as if I was going to end my life or even anything close to that. The thought of doing something like this never ever even crossed my mind, since I still loved myself and my life too much to cause any deliberate harm to myself consciously, no matter how pathetic my life had turned into. But, yes to continue further I needed to figure out what was going wrong with me...Am I cursed? Has god forsaken me? What is the purpose of this endless struggle called life? Is it just to grow up, get educated, find a job or a business, get settled, get married, have children and live happily/sadly ever after? I used to think “if this is what it is all about then the struggle is not really worth it”. I used to wonder and initiate a seemingly one sided conversation with God, but now I know he answers in ways known only to God. So I used to say “Oh God, common, please tell me that there is something indeed better than just getting and being well-settled (as the phrase commonly used in drafting matrimonial ads) and living happily ever after – for what I am fighting for.
Although such questions used to pop-up in my head time and again for the last couple of years but now the pressure had become unbearable and I had to find the answers. I used to read some books here n there casually, but when I took this break (I left the trade I was working in for the last 12 years spanning a lot of different ventures) I totally immersed myself into finding these answers. I dedicated myself totally to books and any educational material which promised even slightly to help me find my answers. And I ended up doing a pretty good job at that. So, In the light of the newly found knowledge I reflected back onto my life and the vast experiences (when you don’t get what you want; what you get is the experience), the massive failures and eventual setbacks, huge mistakes and a couple of successes too, that I had gained over my lifetime, (when I say massive or huge it is a relative term since what is massive for me might be minute for you or vice-verse) I could figure out everything as if the game – the game of life – opened itself to me, as if heavens opened its doors and The God disclosed his cards to me at least for the part of the game that has already been played. I could figure out why things happened-the way they happened to me and what are the operating principles of life that govern the results one get.
So the most important principle that I have learned is this that the value which is added to one’s life directly or indirectly is equally proportionate to the value one ads to the world whether you do it consciously or unconsciously. So here I am, starting with the next phase of my life and I need to add a lot of value to my life. Hence, I am starting this meetup group so that I am able to help as many individuals I can to get on track with their lives and gradually become invincible and unstoppable. I will tell you about my story, my experiences, the mistakes I made and the lessons I learned. Above all, I shall tell you about the science behind failure and success to the best of my ability, which when I learned I discovered that it is not easy but pretty simple and the awareness of the same shall cause you to get really excited and lit up and embrace even your struggles and failures on your way to ultimate success unto your maximum potential. On your way to the ultimate success one thing that you would face so very often is failure. You really need to embrace your failures well and learn what they are trying to tell you, but what we tend to do is – fret over our failures and shun the learning and hence they tend to come up over and over again, the scenery may differ but the result almost always corresponds to the same essential misery getting worse with time. I really wished at that time if I had been this aware I would have been rocking but as you know the famous saying goes like this “Only when the student is ready, the teacher appears”. The perspective that you shall gain when I will apply all the science I tell you onto my experiences and show you how it all worked out the way it did, it shall really help you in grasping the science well and then you can put it onto your life and figure out things for yourself by yourself.
If you are experiencing a life that you feel that you haven't signed up for, issues spanning over business/career, finances, academics, health, addictions, relationships, passion and purpose or the life on the whole, you must join the group.
The Knowledge shall empower you. And you will love it. That’s a promise.