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ORDERS OF LOVE: Uncover the Origins of Family Conflict, Restore Love & Awakening

Fri Dec 28, starts at 5PM
Sat Dec 29 10AM to 5PM
Sun Dec 30 10AM to 5PM

a Workshop to
Uncover the Origins of Family Conflict
Restore the Flow of Love and Awakening
Vlado Ilic, Internationally Renowned Teacher and Close Collaborator of Bert Hellinger

Orders of Love are an effective way of revealing unconscious connections with the fates of family ancestors. Events such as the premature death of a parent or sibling, the exclusion of a family member, a murder of or by a family member, or victimization of others can all lead to “entanglements” which disturb one’s life and relationships. Severe consequences may result, such as feelings of isolation, depression, mental and physical illness, accidents, financial or relationship issues and even suicidal thoughts.

In this Workshop Setting, participants come with a particular issue they want to address. The issues are often long-standing problems that plague a person’s life, regardless of repeated attempts at change or developing insight. This intractability arises from the “blind” love of a child towards a family member, and may be resolved with solutions that come in the form of new images of old situations and ideas – images which invite “enlightened” love to flow. Once this love is flowing the conflicts and problems can be left in the past.

In setting up your order at a workshop, a participant chooses workshop attendees to represent members of his or her family, then places them in relationship to each other, without comment, based on how it “felt” to be in the family. Despite not knowing each other or having much information about the family members or their relationships to each other, the representatives become a living model of the original family system. The participant sees the underlying patterns previously invisible to them and their families.

In this work, even small gestures can provide useful information. Words are kept to a minimum and thus become quite powerful. When the family members are placed in relationship to each other in the center of the circle, a phenomenon occurs. The representatives begin to notice feelings and thoughts which reflect those of the actual family members.The best explanation for this phenomenon can be found in the work of renowned author and biologist Dr. Rupert Sheldrake. A field of energy, called the morphogenetic field, connects people, places and even animals, and has memory and influence. Dr. Sheldrake has documented the existence of this field in a number of books. Bert Hellinger, having observed the presence of this “knowing field”, learned how to use it to modify previously hidden dynamics, so that the natural order supporting love can be reestablished and love may flow.

Growth of systemic orders work continues around the world as facilitators adapt it to include their own experience and professional backgrounds. Bert Hellinger’s original synthesis, called “family constellations”, can be seen in innovations encompassing the fields of business, health, education, the socio-political field, and a vast array of other specialties. Systemic Constellations work can be found on every continent and in more than 35 countries worldwide. It has served thousands of individuals profoundly.

*Friday and Saturday include optional education for current and future facilitators.

Feel Free to Bring and/or Share with Others.

Cost: Early Bird Special Before Nov. 30 $280
secured by $80 Deposit
Thereafter $320

Contact Ivan Polic at 714 * 598 * 6884
RSVP right here on the Meetup and your seat will be reserved

Vlado Ilic currently holds workshops each year, all across Europe, guiding people back to a love that lasts by eliminating obstacles, burdens and disorder in families.

He was born in 1962. He lives in Germany, with his wife Njezna and their five children. He studied in Belgrade, and mastered his studies in Germany.

He says about his work: “After 20 years of working with people as pedagogue, professor, karate teacher and manager, I have discovered the healing power of Order of Love. This is the most fulfilling work, and at the same times the most challenging, as no other work so far. To follow the strength of the Spirit with my greatest awareness fills my soul with deepest respect, modesty, gratefulness and love.”

I especially love to work with children. They unconsciously take over their parents’ responsibility – because of love. This means that family entanglement of the parents leads to dynamics that becomes evident as their children’s various behavioral disorders, illnesses, allergies or frequent accidents.
The parents can set up the constellation even if their children are not present.”

Everything we do for ourselves, at the same time we do for our children."

Location: Map to The GATEWAY Portal

Free Parking in attached lot directly behind building first come first serve. When/if full, ample free surrounding street parking.


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