We are an active, friendly group constantly making new friends while participating in outdoor adventures and daily social events.  SINGLES AND COUPLES OF ALL AGES, LONGTIME RESIDENTS, & NEW TO ASHEVILLE 

We take time to get to know each other and build on each others strengths. You get out of a club what you put into it, so if you want to enjoy kayaking, tubing, flag football, white water, skydive, zipline, rock climbing, waterfall or photography loving, horseback riding, or cruises, join us and show everybody else how much fun it can be!  We look forward to meeting another dynamic member.

Urban Legends meets several times a week in different areas of town and posts budget-conscious events often, so you save money while having fun.   We meet often enough that you find friends.

It could happen! We're all about... Trivia Games/Tournaments, Cookouts & Picnics, Exploration, Historic Areas, and Places of Interest, Target Shooting/ Gun Education, Comedy Clubs, Wine or Beer Tastings, Dinners,  Live Music, Dancing, Festivals, Business Networking, Art, Photography, Movies of all kinds, Day Trips, Travel, & Physical Activity, 
Quiet After-Work Events, House Parties, Game Nights/ Board Game Nights, Road Trips, Travel, Adventures, Creativity, Supporting Local Non-Profits, Giving Back to the Community, Scavenger Hunts, Book Club, Theater, Concerts, and Symphony  If you dream about it, we'll help you make it happen!  Let us plan your social calendar for you!

Please read our Club Guidelines (below the video) before joining. You are responsible for knowing the Club Guidelines/FAQs when you become a Member.

For your convenience, this is our Facebook page: Urban Legends Facebook Page


Urban Legends is unusual in that we have intentionally become a community of friends, instead of simply meeting "acquaintances" for events, then going home. Become part of an active, fun, and growing community! Our Club Guidelines are about courtesy.



A. Add a recognizable picture and a real name. One person per profile. Make another profile for your spouse.
B. If you RSVP to an event, be there. 3 No-Shows end your Membership. No-shows ruin our club reputation.
C. Pay $5 Dues- Cash- No Paypal. You must meet the Club Organizer in person, to join.That means you must rsvp to an event your Club Organizer (Laura) is attending, before your 15-day access ends. We do not use paypal. (Think of your Temporary Access as a spa pass. It ends if you do not pay to join.)

Read below for more details:FAQs

No-Show in our club means "any reservation which is UNRSVPd less than 24 hours before an event" without an emergency. Consider making and breaking several large RSVPs with your favorite restaurant. The result would not be pleasant. 
Specific events may require a more firm policy. *No-shows ruin opportunities for everyone else in the club by damaging our reputation with a business. 
Three No-shows during your Annual Membership cause removal from the club. If you are removed, please read the accompanying email, about how and when to reapply. 

Pay your $5 Annual Dues to the Club Organizer/Laura at an event within 15 days, before your name is removed. Only Laura can accept your dues- not any other Event Host. 

+ Renewing Members? While we'd love to write everyone who applies to ask if you plan to attend and join (or stay as a Member), it is impossible. Urban Legends removes 50-80 names monthly, mostly of individuals who planned to join but forgot or just never attended an event to join. The month you joined is posted on your own profile, so you can keep up with your own Membership. Pay renewal dues within a month of the date you joined, and your Membership will not be interrupted. WE WANT ALL OF OUR FRIENDS TO STAY! However, life does change, jobs take our time, and families become complicated. If you are removed and want to return, simply reapply and you will be welcomed to return.

Renewing Members may mail their dues via post office. Email Laura for details. 

+ *If you are a couple, apply separately, so you have separate profiles. 

+ Please Maintain a Correct Email Address, so you keep up with event changes. Blocked emails also cause Meetup.com to remove you to protect their computer server from returned emails. Urban Legends has nothing to do with that. 

Q: Why should I join a networking/social club?
Our Members treat you like family while you find your favorite events. Maybe you need a little help transitioning back into single life. Or perhaps you are just looking for something different to do. Urban Legends makes it easy to meet new friends with similar interests, become more active, and to build new friendships.

Q: Are social clubs just "singles" clubs?
Of course not. While a large portion of our membership is single, at least 25% of our members are in committed relationships and want to have fun just like single people. We are also not a "virtual" club. Applicants must meet the Club Organizer to become a member. 

The key to successful events are the Urban Legends Event Coordinators. Each Event Coordinator volunteers to create helpful & innovative events. When you attend an event you will be greeted, introduced to other members at the event, and you'll walk away with a sense of having met some great people.
If you have questions about an event, please direct them to the Event Host/Organizer.

Q: May I bring guests to an event?
It depends. If the event has a limited number of spaces available then only Urban Legends members might be invited. Some events with limited attendance allow for "Plus Ones". 
You may add Non-Members as a "Plus One" Guest, but Members RSVP for themselves. We want every Member to have the same opportunity to RSVP.

+ *When a guest has attended 3 events, the guest will be expected to join Urban Legends in order to attend more events.

+BE NICE! We are here as a friendly, inviting community which benefits everyone involved. Drama is not encouraged. Work it out in private if possible. Bickering is destructive. Insulting anyone in the club-especially on the club website- is not tolerated. Think before you post. You may be removed without refund at the discretion of the Club Organizer.

Urban Legends is your club. When you RSVP for a planned event, you and others on the event list share at least one common interest! Networking and friendship potential is unlimited! 

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