Divorce is about loss. There is no way around it. No matter what side we're on or weather we want it or not, these great changes involve great loss. Sometimes the little things are all we have left - for now. They add up. They can even be the things that help us meet the challenges - what ever they may be. The little things are all around us all the time. My hope for all of us this Thanksgiving is that we all find what ever it takes to make it through all that we have lost or are losing in these most challenging of times. And that we all see and come to know all that we have, will have and have gotten back as a result of these things we're going through. Where we are now may be very different from where we were going or where we thought we would be but nothing beats where we have yet to go. So this thanksgiving I am Thankful for all of you. Knowing we can do so many great things to move forward together is exciting and an honor. It is time to seek. You all make it so much easier than it would have been alone.