RE: [divorcesupport-513] Re: [divorcesupport-513]

From: rick
Sent on: Thursday, April 4, 2013 6:13 PM

Hey this is rick yeah the guy who dared to have a contrary opinion. Sorry to cause such a stir PLEASE stop responding everyone has there own story and you are all adults with your own religion and your own opinions. Can’t we all just get along J I am after all someone you probably have never met so why do you even care what I think. I love each and every one of you. I’m sure under different circumstances we would be  good friends. So PLEASE forgive my insensitivity and lets get back to the intent of this group which is sharing ideas and resources to help us though this valley. Hopefully each of you will find the place of peace that you desire.

God Bless and good luck J

 

From: [address removed] [mailto:[address removed]] On Behalf Of Kim Kiser
Sent: Thursday, April 04,[masked]:31 PM
To: [address removed]
Subject: [divorcesupport-513] Re: [divorcesupport-513]

 

Rck....my heart aches for you and your sarcism, which is always rooted in hate.  As one who grieves daily over the destruction my children have witnessed, I ache over the broken dream of family.  Your crude and personal jabs of "poor baby" are rude and as intolerant as those of a verbally abusive spouse. 

 

There is not a human being alive that does not crave the love of the another.  Not one.  We were created in His image and he is rooted in love.  I can only imagine how he ached as I lay in my hotel room, five months pregnant with my youngest,  only to have my completely drunk uncaring husband come strolling in at morning's light, after having been out with the 'girls' in his office, to try to climb into bed with the vessel through which his offspring was housed.  I remember vividally remember walking out to the ocean and screaming at my God...what would you have me do?  At the time I heard him say "act justly, love mercy and walk humbly before me".  In my young niave beliefs, I jumped to love mercy and quickly forgave the man.  Little did I realize the manner in which the verse is stated....1. act justly.  2. Then love mercy.  3. walk humbly before God.  Well...the most just thing I could have done at the time was get my sweet little pregnant ass on a plane and leave his immature and consistent behavior in Maui where he belonged.  So.....don't you dare ever place your belief system onto me stating that I should 'still' be married to that man.  

 

Your pathetic empathy is obviously not of God....if it were you would understand the breaking of his heart....  You would understand when he says I desire a broken and contrite heart over offerings.  If my sanity, my physical and emotional health is in jeapordy...........then I am dishonoring the one thing created in his image.....me.  What would honor him more Rick, a warm body in a broken marriage that should have never taken place to begin with but through grace produced three amazing children and the pieces of one woman's heart or the truthful authentic heart that lays before him daily begging for his grace to endure another day and to have the willingness to forgive a man who STILL has no heart to this day.  I know him well enough to know that he knows me.........and that my choice to DIVORCE was my last,y absolutely last resort.  It took me on a death bed in the hospital from an attempted suicide to finally have the where with all to make a courageous choice!

 

Sad.....  sad is divorce.  Sadder still....those who are walking dead warm bodies in a broken dysfunctional marriage.  What a sad display of the union of God and his bride. 

 

You can take my name off this excessively indepth email if you please; however, I will spend the rest of my days using this horrific experience as a platform to educate women, men and children that their God does not condone abuse.  Read Micah 3 slowly and carefully.....he hates divorce, but read the lines above that....he HATES it when a  man covers his wife with a cloak of hate (abuse, etc.)

 

BTW......8, count that Rick and every one else 8 years of counseling on my part and his could not reconcile what God deemed unreconcilable.  Or is that not enough years of counseling....?  Tell that to my poor babies as they gather their stuff weekly to move from house to house.  Nuclear family.....some men and women for that matter should be castrated before they are ever allowed to give birth to children!

 

 

 

On Tue, Apr 2, 2013 at 1:44 AM, Kristin <[address removed]> wrote:

Do you believe in freedom of religion? Perhaps the government should mandate a 5 year courtship before allowing us to get married in the first place. Or, since we are adults (some more mature than others) perhaps we should make our own choice and let our own beliefs guide us.





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