Re: [furries-290] Death and Loss

From: Blaidd G.
Sent on: Tuesday, October 18, 2011 10:26 PM

You do. It's called the Membership List at Furlife. Almost any one of us will be willing to listen, hang out, dispense hugs, and donate a shoulder to cry on.

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From: Jaiko Starfire <[address removed]>
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Re: [furries-290] Death and Loss

Aww... so many sweet people willing to be helpful. It touches my heart
to see this. I wish I had a big list of close friends here in WA that
I could hang out with and talk about anything to.

On Tue, Oct 18, 2011 at 5:57 PM, paradox <[address removed]> wrote:
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> Don't let that ominous abyss drag you to the depths of despair. I've had my fair share of death and loss and I know I have more to face in the future. I've Been fighting deperession and suicidal tendencies since my early childhood and I'm still fighting. I choose to keep going because I know things are getting better. They will for all of you. Don't give up. we are here for each other for better of for worse. I will lend a hand, an ear, heart or brain to anyone that feels alone and needs a friend. I am always open for a good friend. Regardless of my current condition(s). s*** happens and I won't let it get the best of me and I won't let it interfere with anything or anyone else. Stay furry... Get a hug or more, go live for the moment. ;-)
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> For the cubs find something to play with or warm up to something cozy. For the fun and enjoyment of it anyways..hugs...
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> P.S. For those who read my message on the board I appreciate you taking the time to do so. seeing all of the loving people in this string of messages helps quite a bit. Thanks.
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> Paradox
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> On Oct 18, 2011, at 2:13 AM, Robert Johnson <[address removed]> wrote:
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>> My thoughts have been lingering quite a bit about recent losses in the
>> fandom, some are clearly accidental, some are otherwise mysterious,
>> however its all tragic, and in my time I have known of (and known)
>> several folks to have committed suicide. Having waded down that dark
>> morass myself, many times, I wanted to put _something_ out there.
>>
>> Furry is a family, yes, its a (sometimes very) dysfunctional one, but I
>> have never seen a case where furs were not very nearly always there for
>> one another, sometimes with just a friendly shoulder, often with money,
>> time and other resources.
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>> So, I want to make myself clear, if anyone feel so alone that they need
>> to end it, that there is no hope of improvement, please, reach out,
>> these are hard times, and contrary to what we hear, are not getting
>> better. Sometimes we all need someone to talk to, and I want every
>> person to know that someone will always be there for you to help you
>> deal with it, and while we may not solve your problem for you, we can at
>> least give you an ear to chew on for a bit. I volunteer myself for one.
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>> I think its times like these that make us stronger as a community, and
>> while I would just as soon things be better for everyone, it helps us
>> all in the end if we pull closer together.
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>> In the end, Don't be afraid to ask for help, we all need it sometimes.
>>
>> Robert Johnson
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