Re: [furries-290] Death and Loss

From: user 2.
Sent on: Wednesday, October 19, 2011 12:31 AM
Ugh, your post was at the bottom of all that, ew
I'd rather be anal about this than at someone changing their name on Facebook x3

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--- On Wed, 10/19/11, Dart Wuffy <[address removed]> wrote:

From: Dart Wuffy <[address removed]>
Subject: Re: [furries-290] Death and Loss
To: [address removed]
Date: Wednesday, October 19, 2011, 12:30 AM

On 10/19/2011 2:05 AM, Dalavin teh Skepherd wrote:
Here, I made a topic for you guys so you don't have to do it yourselves
http://www.meetup.com/furlife/messages/boards/thread/17000962
Please post there instead of the mailing list ^_^

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--- On Tue, 10/18/11, Blaidd Gwyn <[address removed]> wrote:

From: Blaidd Gwyn <[address removed]>
Subject: Re: [furries-290] Death and Loss
To: [address removed]
Date: Tuesday, October 18, 2011, 10:56 PM

I can't speak for anyone else, but my depression has been with me my entire life. I had a horrible childhood: I was physically abused by my father and two stepsisters, I was sexually molested at the age of 6 by a stepsister and again at the age of 10 forced to perform oral sex on her against my will, I never knew month to month which family member I was going to be living with the next month, I never had a mother (she died when I was 7 months old), I was bisexual my entire life but I refused to accept it until I was 32 because liking boys was "bad" so I felt I was a bad person, I felt more connected to animals than people but didn't know what to do about it, and I accidentally burned down my father's house... All before I turned 11, which was when I tried to kill myself the first time. It has absolutely nothing to do with me being part of the furry fandom. And even when my life settled down and I permanently moved in with my grandmother before I turned 12, I felt that everyone else had stopped liking me, had given up on me, had gotten rid of me, was punishing me, etc. I have only spoken to my father once since the accident, that was to let him know I graduated from high school. His response was essentially "Wow, I didn't realize you were that old" which told me that in in about 5 years he forgot me, his one and only child. And I have more issues I don't particularly care to go into that have added to the problem.

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From: Patricia <[address removed]>
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Re: [furries-290] Death and Loss

You know I rarely ever reply to the email messages. I'm more of read and dismiss kinda gal. Also concerning furry fandom I've only been involved in it for little over a year so I'm still hanging on the fringes of the fandom, myself. However after reading all the past messages, I really am surprised at the amount of depression and suicide found in furry fandom. Of course I could be wrong and this whole situation could be exceptional, but talking about suicide itself is serious. Its not something u can dismiss so easily or basically talk causually about in crossing. Suicide is serious. Very serious. And in my opinion have so many people openly admit that they've concidered or atempted suicide is beyond alarming to me. I'm sorry if this sounds consumptous to some. Trust me its not. I'm just very surprised of the level of depressed and despondent furries out there. Like I said I'm still very new to the fandom, so this is surprising to me. I myself am not depressed nor have ever considered suicide. However then again I'm a horse person and I've always been competitvly involved with horses, so anytime I was remotely sad id escape to my barn and ride horses until I felt better. Horses make me happy, so I guess they save me from depression. That's my experience at least.

-Patricia, the goat. (I know, ironic right?)

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From: paradox <[address removed]>;
To: <[address removed]>;
Subject: Re: [furries-290] Death and Loss
Sent: Wed, Oct 19, 2011 2:28:49 AM

I've learned that the people that shun you away or tell you otherwise are the kindve people you don't need in you're life. They only hold you back. We are here to help each other and I'm not going to tell you to leave or change and im sure everyone else here can back that. You are unique in your own way so be proud of it. there are a few kind of people I won't be around and for a good reason, I'm not going to judge anybody as a general rule. I will get to know them first. Otherwise I'm open for friends. Be happy your a furry.

Paradox

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On Oct 18, 2011, at 7:13 PM, HYP3RCU83 <[address removed]> wrote:

I have had quite a bad life so far and wish I could forget it, yet to this day people keep leaving or dying around me, I lost the last person I had to talk to a little over a month ago and I rarely speak these days so, I am a bit edgy on wether or not to talk to anyone at all at this point since everyone I turn to keeps shunning me away...

On Tuesday, October 18, 2011, kevin <[address removed]> wrote:
> I've gone through quite a few deaths and they can be almost impossible to cope with, especially if they're close to you. It seems like just one death can pull your whole life down. If anyone needs to chat or wants to talk about the passing of someone, I'd be glad to give a hand. It's pretty nice seeing the vast amount of furs in here willing to give a hand... or paw... or hugs... to people in a time of need.
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> You can either catch me in furnet on kevin or kevin|irc. You can also email me if you want to talk on msn/skype/gtalk/icq/aim/yim/etc.
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> On Tue, Oct 18, 2011 at 5:57 PM, paradox <[address removed]> wrote:
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> Don't let that ominous abyss drag you to the depths of despair. I've had my fair share of death and loss and I know I have more to face in the future. I've Been fighting deperession and suicidal tendencies since my early childhood and I'm still fighting. I choose to keep going because I know things are getting better. They will for all of you. Don't give up. we are here for each other for better of for worse. I will lend a hand, an ear, heart or brain to anyone that feels alone and needs a friend. I am always open for a good friend. Regardless of my current condition(s). s*** happens and I won't let it get the best of me and I won't let it interfere with anything or anyone else. Stay furry... Get a hug or more, go live for the moment. ;-)
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> For the cubs find something to play with or warm up to something cozy. For the fun and enjoyment of it anyways..hugs...
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> P.S. For those who read my message on the board I appreciate you taking the time to do so. seeing all of the loving people in this string of messages helps quite a bit. Thanks.
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> Paradox
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> Sent from my iPhone
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> On Oct 18, 2011, at 2:13 AM, Robert Johnson <[address removed]> wrote:
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>> My thoughts have been lingering quite a bit about recent losses in the
>> fandom, some are clearly accidental, some are otherwise mysterious,
>> however its all tragic, and in my time I have known of (and known)
>> several folks to have committed suicide. Having waded down that dark
>> morass myself, many times, I wanted to put _something_ out there.
>>
>> Furry is a family, yes, its a (sometimes very) dysfunctional one, but I
>> have never seen a case where furs were not very nearly always there for
>> one another, sometimes with just a friendly shoulder, often with money,
>> time and other resources.
>>
>> So, I want to make myself clear, if anyone feel so alone that they need
>> to end it, that there is no hope of improvement, please, reach out,
>> these are hard times, and contrary to what we hear, are not getting
>> better. Sometimes we all need someone to talk to, and I want every
>> person to know that someone will always be there for you to help you
>> deal with it, and while we may not solve your problem for you, we can at
>> least give you an ear to chew on for a bit. I volunteer myself for one.
>>
>> I think its times like these that make us stronger as a community, and
>> while I would just as soon things be better for everyone, it helps us
>> all in the end if we pull closer together.
>>
>> In the end, Don't be afraid to ask for help, we all need it sometimes.
>>
>> Robert Johnson
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