There has been some confusion about whether this is a "singles group" or not. Many of the group members are single, but many are in committed relationships as well. If you would like to "hit" on someone it would probably be best to do that in my other group - Table for Eight, Dinner for Singles 35 and up - or one of the other singles groups on meetup instead of in this group. This group is primarily for outdoor walks and hikes and other events is and is for social networking rather than to "meet a mate." Speeddating events are good for finding someone to date - cupid.com, meetinggame.com or hurrydate.com - all events where everybody there is single. Best wishes to all in their search.