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| Marlon | |
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hi
I have recently started to date a japanese girl I have dated many girls in my life,but for some reason I seem kinda scared about dating Saya (fake name I am using) Um,so I know this is not a dating forum,or love life help,but where else could I get help on dating a japanese girl? What things are they mostly interested in? What can I talk to them about how should I treat them Do I have to take off my socks if I go to her house? I only dated hispanic,and white girls,so those 2 where very different. Um,any pointer's any help would be very helpful IF this post is way off-topic sorry,please erase it. |
| Anthony | |
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you can't really steroetype a person just because of their background. And there is no one Japanesse type, if she isn't from America then you can show her around Houston it would be a new experience for her. She may be home sick too, and might be interested in the parts of Houston that hold true to Japan styles.
Just get to know her, it's just dating after all, don't stress out about it or it won't be fun, it's not like you have to marry this person. |
| Marlon | |
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Believe me,I am not trying to stereo type her but,I am so outgoing,and I have this very open attitude and well,I guess I am stereo typing her *SIGHS* this not going to go well,If I don't relax :( Thank's It's just our conversation always end up with this awkward silence I seem to run out of conversation Haha, it's just fun trying to figure her out :) |
| Ninja Eric | |
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Firstly, chicks love a man that can type clean lines and use mostly proper grammar and sentence structure.
Also if your conversations go nowhere, and you have to think really hard when you are away from her about what you can talk about, then perhaps the relationship isn't going to work out since there doesn't seem to be any natural chemistry going on between the two of you. I'd say your last hope really is to suddenly bring up ninja. That's right, I said it, ninja. If she is truly Japanese just mentioning the word ninja will get her excited. Because chicks love us. It's true. -Ninja Eric |
| Gil | |
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It's all about setting the right flags and avoiding a bad end.
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| Omar S. Ali | |
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Dude, just tell her that you are going to help her a green card..... oh wait, she is not a Mexican, damn dude, you are on your own....
Dang, I am going to hell really soon for this shit... ![]() Edited by Omar S. Ali on Nov 5, 2009 12:14 AM |
| clarisse | |
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lol ignore omar, marlon. ganbatte!!! :3 hope you bring her to one of the meetups!
Edited by clarisse on Nov 5, 2009 12:49 AM |
| Marlon | |
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I was in panic mode earlier when I posted this topic,cause
she had not return my calls or answer her phone since yesterday. It turns out T-MOBIL (the cell phone company she has) had some outage yesterday,so she calls me today,and well,everything is normal again. We talked for about an hour she was laughing at my silly jokes and I even told her about this topic :) LOL-what was I thinking coming to this place asking for advice? (I am such a looser lol ) Yeah! Maybe one day I'll show up on a meeting with her :) matane Edited by Marlon on Nov 5, 2009 1:33 AM |
| clarisse | |
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lol does that make us losers too because you came to us? bahaha
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| icm | |
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oi oi. first i'm a loser for being a drinker, druggie, and ex jailbird and now for liking anime HAHAHA wtf man!
yeah dude, you should've gone to the japanese language meetup boards or somethin rofl. i would assume they're alot more familiar with the culture since they have to know when its proper to say and do certain things. Edited by icm on Nov 5, 2009 10:05 AM |