Solving Inner Conflicts That Keep Us From Success

  • May 21, 2013 · 6:45 PM
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Solving Inner Conflicts With NLP

Have you ever wanted something in life, but it seemed be a struggle to get it? Or maybe you finally got something - success in your career, a new relationship, or started going to the gym, but then something happened to sabotage it? When we have deep and hidden internal conflicts, they will show up in our results in life as sabotage of success.

If you have never had that ever happen to you, I'm sure you can think of someone close to you who has. Maybe a "friend" right? ;-)  So how would you like to move towards your goals and things you want in life easily? And once you get them, keep enjoying them? The secret is easier than you think.

In NLP, we call our "Values" those hidden priorities in different areas in life. Values are those things that motivate us in advance, so they tell us how we will spend our time. If two different people had different values in career, let's say one had freedom as their number one most important priority, and the other had security, do you think they would be in different jobs? Drive different cars, take vacations differently, etc? Of course! The problem shows up when...

One person happens to have both those values (freedom and security) very high on their priority list. So they began pushing in opposite directions like wanting to start a business and be an entrepreneur for the freedom, but then worry about a steady and certain paycheck. They may go back and forth for years with this battle and never get the business off the ground. Sound familiar?

I have a friend who always wants to be in a loving relationship, so he is always looking for "that special someone" to share his life with. The trouble is that after about 6 months of being in the relationship, something always comes up that makes the relationship impossible. He then ends it, and celebrates being single for a while only to come back to the same desire to find someone special again. He has been doing this for about 12 years. The reason very simply is that high on his values list subconsciously are freedom and love. They vie for the number one spot constantly creating conflict! Single gives him freedom, but not high level intimate love, and relationships can give high level love, but not unlimited freedom.

Would you like to understand this more and discover what it means to your life? Come out to our next meetup and let's have some fun figuring out what makes us tick! As always, the meetups are free, and you can bring a friend, spouse or partner along. Isn't it time to enjoy the type of success you always wanted, and keep it! RSVP now while there are still seats available.

If you are in another area, check out our other chapters all over So Cal. Same content, different location!

So you know, as of this month, we now have this same meetup each month all over Southern California. We want to spread the teachings of NLP, and give back some of the success we have experienced because of NLP and Hypnosis. If this is not in your area, click the link below for the EXACT SAME MEETUP, but for the group in your area. We have Santa Monica, Orange County, and San Diego. Even better, if you can't make it out, or it's just too far to go, you can join us via live-stream to enjoy the content. Find out more at:

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  • Brandon Scott B.

    Can't wait to learn more!!

    May 22, 2013

  • Constantine D.

    Was informative

    May 22, 2013

  • Zarko

    Running about 15-20 min late. On my way..

    May 21, 2013

  • Linda C.

    Is anyone interested in sharing a ride from El Cajon? Also, my brother will join me, his name is Marc Fulbright.

    1 · May 20, 2013

    • Constantine D.

      Hi Linda, are you offering to give a ride from El Cajon?

      May 21, 2013

  • Matt B.

    I'm opening up 5 more spots, and we will be moving to a bigger room! Bring your friends and family, let's have an NLP party tonight ;-)

    May 21, 2013

  • Matt B.

    I'm getting excited! Tonight is going to be very special and eye opening... See you all there

    May 21, 2013

  • Linda C.

    My brother Marc Fulbright will be joining me.

    1 · May 20, 2013

  • Constantine D.

    Will definitely be there.

    1 · May 14, 2013

    • Matt B.

      Looking forward to it Constantine!

      May 20, 2013

  • Linda C.

    See you there.

    1 · April 30, 2013

  • Linda C.

    I was just telling a friend last night that I SO want to be hypnotized! No coincidence that here you are! I'm looking forward to meetup.

    2 · April 27, 2013

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