Intuitive Feelers (NFs) Meetup? (INFP/ENFP/INFJ/ENF­­J)

A Meetup for Idealists, as NFs are often called. Together we make up about 10% of the population (at least according to this website: http://www.brainoptimization.com/Valuable%20Information/Are_You_an_Idealist_type.htm).

And collectively we excel at being/having: 
1- Excellent communicators 
2- Empathy 
3- Diplomatic intelligence 
4- Intuition 
5- Aspiration to be a sage (Self-realization) 
6- Democratic 
7- Altruistic 
8- Enthusiastic 
9- Benevolent and Kind 
10- Harmonizers 
11- Catalysts for change 
12- Authentic 
13- Cooperative in implementing goals 
14- Great healers, teachers, counselors, mentors, life coaches, writers, and social reformers. 
15- Abstract thinkers 
16- Capable of managing and sharing enormous amount of information.

Basically we are the most awesome of all the temperaments, albeit often misunderstood.

So let's come together and have some mutual, shared deep conversations, understandings, and interactions!

Hope to see you there!

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  • Yen

    A conversation on "Thinking vs. Feeling" hosted by Cafe Philo for those who are interested. http://www.meetup.com/New-York-Cafe-Philo/events/203586062/

    September 24

  • Jason

    Sad I missed this due to unexpected events. It looks like everyone had a great time! Can't wait until the next one. Cheers.

    December 14, 2013

  • Palina P.

    Here is the link to our video hangout. It's more active during late nights. https://plus.google.com/hangouts/_/event/ca21v7jnc2dng6oi7o4rbu4av9s?authuser=0&hl=en

    December 13, 2013

  • Darrell

    Great meet up. So sorry I had to leave, look forward to the next one.

    1 · December 10, 2013

  • Len G.

    If I was still in New York I would be there. I'm an INFJ and continue to work with clients using the MBTI as a career services volunteer. I would love to see attendees post their reactions to this meetup for those of us won't be able to make it.

    December 7, 2013

    • Len G.

      Joyce, I would prefer to contact you directly via email for privacy purposes. My email address is [masked].

      December 9, 2013

    • Joyce

      I will send you my email in private message.

      December 9, 2013

  • Christy

    For those interested in the enneagram, this talking styles list is how I finally realized my true type: http://www.the16types.info/vbulletin/content.php/179-Enneagram-Talk-Styles-Essence-Passions-Fixations

    December 9, 2013

  • Daniel J.

    Youtube channel:
    enfj discussions
    Ultomotone
    Facebook.com/limittoyourlove

    1 · December 9, 2013

  • Palina P.

    Any of the INFJs interested in meeting up again soon? Wished I could have stayed longer. Here's the IEI-SLE forum on facebook: https://www.facebook.com/groups/IEISLE/

    3 · December 8, 2013

  • Philip M.

    I had a lot of fun! Thanks!

    2 · December 8, 2013

  • Chun

    Can we start earlier? So we can do it longer. Also we definitely should the next event soon..

    December 8, 2013

    • Alisa

      dude you left your Idealist ream of paper at the venue, so I took it home to read.

      December 8, 2013

  • A former member
    A former member

    Never had the chance to talk about my NF side so explicitly. Had a lot of fun at this cozy venue. Would go again!

    5 · December 8, 2013

  • Doris

    Thanks so much for a wonderful afternoon - time totally flew by!! :-) Looking forward to the next one. xx

    3 · December 8, 2013

  • Diane

    very nice

    December 8, 2013

  • Daniel J.

    Im here

    December 8, 2013

  • Daniel J.

    Im at penn now anyone want to meet up early?

    December 8, 2013

  • Ginger

    Looks like I won't be able to make it after all. I'm really disappointed! I hope I can make the next one, if there will be one!

    December 6, 2013

  • Fred G.

    SO disappointed to not be able to make this. 50 RSVPs! Good luck and happy chatting!

    December 4, 2013

  • A former member
    A former member

    So note the change in time and place...I made the rsvp for 12:30, but they open at 12:00 so feel free to get there at any time between then. I'll arrive around noon to greet the hosts and make sure everything's ready to go. Last thing, we were asked to be mindful of the fact that the restaurant will be serving brunch to the crowd in the main part of the restaurant, so that our group of 40-50 people doesn't all sit down and order meals at once. I told him we would be considerate of that, and that it would most likely be a mix of people staggering their orders of a la carte food and drinks. The manager was super accommodating and agreed to not charge us anything for the space. So, after all that, I'm both super excited about this Sunday and looking forward to meeting you all!

    4 · December 2, 2013

    • serina h.

      This is going to be fun!

      2 · December 3, 2013

  • Palina P.

    How often do these meetups happen?

    December 2, 2013

  • Palina P.

    This sounds pretty neat. I have been in a google hangout talking about socionics for the month that I have been in Brooklyn. Looking to meet duals and also like-minded folks. Need some new friends!

    November 20, 2013

    • Julie M

      what's the socionics group? Is it a meetup? I actually like socionics better than MB..

      December 2, 2013

    • Palina P.

      It's online. If you're familiar with EJarendee on youtube, it's one of his groups. He comes into the chats sometimes. This one is the IEI-SLE one. https://www.facebook.c...­

      December 2, 2013

  • Daniel J.

    I counted 3 enfjs in attendence, brace yourselves!

    December 2, 2013

  • A former member
    A former member

    December 2, 2013

  • A former member

    A former member changed the time from 12:00 PM to 12:30 PM

    December 2, 2013

  • A former member

    A former member changed the location from Cafe Espanol to Hill & Dale

    December 2, 2013

  • A former member
    A former member

    Okay guys, so when our group went over 20 Cafe Espanol wanted us to commit to a $40/per person prix fixe option, which is obvio not cool. So...I found an even more awesome place, super laid back, reasonably priced food and drinks, great ambience for this type of Meetup. We have the back room at Hill and Dale reserved for Sunday. Check out the menu and space: http://www.hillanddalenyc.com/#!food/cmq9

    Also, the setup for our room is like a huge living room with couches and tables so we can all fill the cozy, inviting space with our warm NF tendencies and such (infp here). Okay, I'm done :P

    1 · December 2, 2013

  • A former member
    A former member

    Woah, this meetup grew! Last I checked we were about 20...i'm gonna contact the restaurant and make sure they have the space for 38 people. Otherwise, I might have to find another venue...

    1 · December 1, 2013

  • serina h.

    Looking forward to seeing/meeting everyone next weekend :)

    1 · December 1, 2013

  • Ginger

    Hi! I would be interested in this meet up, but don't know what my schedule would be like yet. Just wondering, what are these meet ups usually like?

    November 22, 2013

    • Noah

      Usually we all discuss our types, and end up talking about how we see things, our experiences with other types or with anything in general...etc. It's very casual, and definitely a unique type of group to be in!

      2 · November 26, 2013

  • Joyce

    Ok are there any male ENFJs here? That is supposed to be my complement type.

    1 · November 16, 2013

  • Joyce

    Anyone from NJ out there?

    1 · November 20, 2013

  • Alex Y.

    Other types welcome??

    3 · November 4, 2013

    • A former member
      A former member

      Of course!

      2 · November 4, 2013

    • Philip M.

      Yay :)

      1 · November 17, 2013

  • A former member
    A former member

    Thanks, Ashley. That sounds great!

    November 14, 2013

  • A former member

    A former member changed the location from Housing Works Bookstore Cafe to Cafe Espanol

    November 14, 2013

  • A former member
    A former member

    Hey, I changed the location of the Meetup because when I told them the size of our group she said they would have to charge us $125/hour to reserve space for 20 people. So I made a reservation at a place nearby, Cafe Espagñol. We have a big table reserved, so I just ask that everyone RSVP on here (cancel if you can't make it and indicate if you are bringing others) so that I can keep the restaurant updated, and they have enough seats for us. http://cafeespanol.com/


    Also, this place is not expensive FYI, its cheaper tapas/small plates, and they have a nice prix fixe option for $13.95 that includes soup/salad, main course, coffee/tea, beer/wine, and a dessert if you're wanting that as well. Not bad for the West Village!

    2 · November 14, 2013

  • Young L.

    I'm going to struggle to make it but I'll be there

    November 12, 2013

  • A former member
    A former member

    What do you guys think about making it an NF Intuitive Feelers Meetup? INFP, ENFP, INFJ, ENFJ? We are the idealist, romantic, lovers, dreamers, visionaries, could be interesting to see who comes. Thoughts?

    3 · November 9, 2013

    • Daniel J.

      I already decided I qas going so :P

      1 · November 9, 2013

  • Jenny K.

    Hi I'm new to the group and would love to attend!

    November 5, 2013

  • A former member
    A former member

    Hi, I'm an INFP. Really looking forward to meeting fellow INFs.

    1 · November 5, 2013

  • A former member
    A former member

    I chose HW Bookstore Cafe b/c they have lots of cozy corners and tables in case the Meetup is fairly large. Plus its a bookstore, non-profit and the food/drinks are reasonable (INFP here, clearly). But we can always change it to a place that's more convenient if other people want. It's not for another month but if interest grows I'll see about reserving a space for the event. Looking forward to meeting new and and old friends!

    -Ashley

    1 · November 4, 2013

  • A former member

    A former member changed the location to Housing Works Bookstore Cafe

    November 4, 2013

  • Efren Laya C.

    Might as well. Need to check my schedule to see if I'm busy tho

    November 4, 2013

  • Irene Z.

    INFP attending : )

    1 · November 4, 2013

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