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London Bisexuals Monthly Pub Social

  • May 23, 2013 · 7:30 PM
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Our regular pub social on the 4th Thursday every month. Great for new members; come say hi, and get a feel for the group. Very friendly, happy, relaxed atmosphere, definitely social, fun, and happy; not meat-market.

This is our biggest regular event with 50 of you or more, always a good mix of regulars and first-timers (roughly half and half), guys and girls (not far off 50/50). Always a lot of new faces every time, nearly all of whom came on their own (just a few couples/+1s) which keeps it fresh and friendly to all - regulars chat to new folk. You won't be the only new person (by a long way).

We meet downstairs (in the basement) of the O Bar in Soho - not upstairs anymore as we outgrew it! The stairs down are at the back corner of the ground floor. We usually have the room to ourselves until later on. Look for myself, John (the organiser) - 6' tall, long hair, I match my profile picture; and I usually have a logo somewhere on a table/wall to confirm you're in the right place (though I occasionally forget).

Shy? Or what to expect...

I can introduce you to new/regular people from the group and get the conversation started - just ask! Come find me when you get here, I always look out for new members to introduce myself. Expect a normal bar sort of mood, atmosphere, and chat levels - sometimes bi-related, often not, in a club-like sparkly white room with a couple of seated booths. Music is mixed, generally disco/club-oriented and slightly quieter early evening (though we have limited control) but louder later. Cocktails/lagers not ales, of course soft drinks are also available, and there's a happy hour (or two) of cheap drinks if you're there on time. To get a better idea, read some past-event comments or the group reviews.

A little warning: if you turn up later (maybe 9pm-ish onwards) and the pub happens to be busy, it might be hard to get in or to our group with a wait for someone else to leave (from another group, not usually ours) before you can enter. Tell them you're there for John G's meetup group as I reserve space for us, and that should ease getting in. The stairs down are at the back corner of the bar. Bring photo ID if you've been asked for it at all recently anywhere (they have been known to be picky).


We have a twitter presence ( londonbi), and a facebook page, but the meetup site and sometimes twitter are where the info/news/activity is.

Finding O Bar

The O Bar is at 83-85 Wardour St, right on the corner of Brewer St and Wardour Street, near Leicester Square / Piccadilly Circus, or more of a walk from Trafalgar Square or Charing Cross. Its opposite the end of Old Compton St. furthest away from Charing Cross Rd and Leicester Square tube. I am easily recognisable from my profile photo (6' tall, slim, even longer hair). Don't be afraid to ask groups if they're the meetup group or call me to check where we are, though sometimes a text might be better - mobile signal is not always great and in the hours up to it my work's signal is terrible. Hang around a bit if you're early. By later on we've usually taken over most of the space in the room (except on holiday weekends). We have reserved tables from 7.30pm and are there til at least 10.30pm, sometimes til 3am when the club closes (or clubbing elsewhere if enough of us fancy it).

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  • Louise

    The DJ playing '80s music made a nice change & many of us were singing along :-) Is that likely to be every month? Shame I had to leave earlier than usual :-(

    May 30, 2013

  • Richard

    Where were you last night? I arrived late at 09:30 p:m. There were a few guys upstairs and people sitting at tables downstairs. It was so noisy though that I am surprised you could one another speak, so I left.

    May 24, 2013

    • John G

      Yes Richard, we're in the basement (stairs DOWN are at back corner of the ground floor bar). Yes, its also noisy. Read the meet description carefully, its all in there suitably bolded (as we used to be on the first floor upstairs in the clubroom, not any more)

      May 26, 2013

    • John G

      PS my phone number to text/call me if you somehow can't find us for that meet or others is usually in the "how to find us" section if you look at the details of the location. Take a note of that (or whoever organises it if its another event) - especially if its outside or we might move shortly after the first meeting point.

      May 26, 2013

  • Aymen

    i wish it was during the weekend :/ well next time :)

    May 22, 2013

    • John G

      Suggest a weekend event? I know quite a few of our members would enjoy and have more time for weekend events. I can't always make them but usually at least a few of our regulars will be keen to be there and help give it a great atmosphere and welcome folk.

      May 26, 2013

  • Manny A.

    Brining along 2 guest if that's OK.

    May 20, 2013

    • John G

      That's fine - they're more than welcome to sign up themselves if they like it and want to come again/do more events with us

      May 26, 2013

  • Tyna

    Unfortunately I cannot make it this time -I'm in Brussels on business but I will defo join you on June -it's my anniversary with the group then :-)!

    1 · May 22, 2013

    • John G

      Wow already?!!

      May 26, 2013

  • Anne

    Had a good evening thanks, meeting like minded folk with stimulating conversation.

    1 · May 25, 2013

  • Garry

    Wasn't sure what to expect,met two lovely guys although struggled to hear them,maybe background music may work better,overall had a good time

    May 25, 2013

  • James H.

    Well.for those who left early we were the last people out the door of GAY closed...great night! A great start at O bar with pretty much everyone carrying on after.

    May 24, 2013

  • A former member
    A former member


    I just wanted to say what a great event last night was. To echo my husband's words to John G, the organiser, last night, 'the atmosphere is great and groupe are really very wecloming'. We are looking forward to meeting more people and attending future meet-ups!

    Thank you for making us feel welcome.

    S x

    May 24, 2013

  • John G

    Hey all! Tonight you'll be able to get flyers and £1 off entry to a brand new bi-friendly (and lgbt, poly) dance club starting up at end of month. See mee/Jessica, or they'll be arouind. I'll be posting it as an event here soon too.

    May 23, 2013

  • Salvo

    see you there tomorrow night.

    May 22, 2013

  • Lexmilian

    Hi, I joined this group a fair tad ago when I was planning to go to England but my trip was abruptly cancelled. I am straight but I grew up in the gay scene my whole life (I support my bi English aunt). I only date bi women causing me to be single basically all of my life.

    I wrote a FREE eBook that is getting officially published in ~60 days (donation based); available at: I am in dire need of donations, for the sake of my mum and certain charity bodies (if you read it and enjoy it please be generous - I donate ~$20 each time I go to church alone).

    I can't wait 'till the next time I visit the mother country (I am in Australia) and I hope by then I will be in touch with some of yas. :-D


    May 18, 2013

    • John G

      Am also not that fond of drive-by spam/promoting, though if its bi related I'm more willing to support it

      1 · May 20, 2013

    • Lexmilian

      Sorry John... I do slightly touch a 'bi' theme in some of my poetry. In my philosophical contribution to online forums I argue for the ethical and biblical justification of bisexuality and homosexuality, but not so much in my book. I would be happy if you message me the link to the message board to me on [masked]. My apologies. :-)

      May 20, 2013

  • A former member
    A former member

    Will be down later than 7:30 ...

    May 18, 2013

  • Jackiii

    Hey guys,

    we´re going out this Friday 3.5.2013. We´ll meet in front of Reflex bar (near St.Pauls) at 9pm. If you wanna join us, send me message (by Friday 5pm) or just turn up. See you X

    May 2, 2013

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