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Pansexual Speed Dating - May Bank Holiday weekend (commercial, external event)

  • Bar Titania

    75 Charing Cross Road WC2h 7PY, London (map)

    51.511757 -0.129581

  • Sapphic Spark events has created this bi-friendly event, and are inviting all - including those outside our group (eg. via the facebook event). It is a commercial event and not specifically endorsed by this bi group's organiser but will remain listed here for now at least (any pre-bookings must be done separately).


    For people of all genders interested in meeting other people for up to 20 first dates. You normally get a good idea from that first impression!

    75 Charing Cross Road, London

    5pm sharp £ 16.00 early bird until April 30th then £20

    To book or for info text::[masked]
    OR EMAIL: [masked]
    Payment is via paypal to [masked] (Limited spaces available)

    * Lesbian Speed Dating: Sat 3rd May at Bar Titania
    * Lesbian Speed Dating: Sat 12th April and Sat 17th May at the A Bar, Brighton.
    * Gay Men's Speed Dating: Friday 11th April and Friday 16th May at the A Bar.

    Research shows we normally have an idea if there will be a spark within the first 30 seconds of meeting someone. 3 minutes gives you that initial impression, breaks the ice and is much easier than spending months chatting online only to know within a few mins of meeting that the spark just isn't there. After that 3 minutes, we organise contacts to be swapped for you and we women enjoy drinks and the night out after with new friends and potentially much longer dates.

    We have gorgeous hostesses to meet and greet you and a mixed bunch of friendly people looking for a great night to meet friends, dates and maybe more. So don't worry if your coming alone - you won't be alone for long!! No discrimination on age, sexuality or appearance, trans friendly. FACEBOOK GROUP: Lesbian Speed Dating

    Paypal Details. 1. Log onto
    2.Click on "send money" link. 3. Make payment for £16.00 to [masked]
    4. In the notes to sender, please include your name, "London Pansexual", age and number!

    1. Is everyone looking for a relationship? What if I just want to make friends?
    You can come to speed dating looking for the love of your life, new friends or both! Just be honest with anyone you meet. Feel free to swap numbers with people you might want to see again, regardless of your intentions. I've made some really good friends at speed dating, a few couples are still together!

    2. It's bisexual speed dating - can I bring my partner as we are in an open relationship?
    It's bisexual speed dating so it's a little bit more fluid that normal speed dating. Yes, the majority of people we expect will probably be fully single, however, as long as you are honest about what you are looking for you are totally welcome!

    3. I'd love to come, but I'm too shy. Can I come alone?
    Yes! Come alone or with friends. It can be a bit scary going alone, so we have gorgeous hostesses to make you feel at ease. When you arrive, let us know you are here and we will break the ice (the bar helps with this!) and some introductions (if you want them!).

    3. Am I too old / young?
    Some of us go for older people, some younger. Others are as old as the person they feel! Women of all ages come to our speed dating events. So far we've had fun loving women from 19 - 69! Although, most people who come are in their 30's or 40's, all ages are welcome. Just bring along an open mind and a friendly attitude and we'll see you there!

    4. Is it open to gender queer people?
    Yes, everyone is welcome regardless of how you identify or where you lie on the Kinsey scale.

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  • Maz

    Looking forward to seeing you on Saturday Justyna.

    Unfortunately, we have decided to cancel our pansexual speed dating and focus on our women only speed dating which is on Saturday night.
    All women regardless of sexuality are welcome.

    Guys - just to let you know that 1 of the reasons that we cancelled the pansexual event was that we had more than 1 woman who had ticked she was coming on the event sheet email to say she'd had approaches from guys that made her feel uncomfortable and so now didn't want to go. I know your keen but it's a shame as you could have come along to the event and met the women and chatted in real life, but women can be easily scared off if not approached gently!!

    Let me know if you do want us to organise another pansexual event.

    May 2, 2014

    • John G

      Am sorry to hear that Maz. Will update the event, sorry I only just saw this comment.

      May 4, 2014

    • Maz

      Thanks John. We had a really successful women only event. It's a shame the mixed one didn't work.

      May 7, 2014

  • A former member
    A former member

    Perhaps we should have separate events for bisexual women only, this way perhaps people with non genuine intentions, and who are not genuinely pansexual or bisexual, or with aggressive and predatory attitudes get filtered off.

    May 2, 2014

    • Maz

      Carmela this would be a great idea but I fear it would be too niche to get the numbers needed to make it viable. We are running the women's speed dating event on Sat night at 6. Your v welcome to come. We've always had a lot of bi women and women who like women by any definition but decided it was more inclusive calling it women's speed dating than lesbian. The pansexual event was for everyone as pansexual / bisexual women like guys too. Maybe another time

      May 2, 2014

    • John G

      Its also really hard to filter out the good ones from the bad ones til you meet them in person. Probably the majority you wouldn't want there are guys but there are also many great guys too, and I don't know how to tell them apart without previous vetting - you can block the few who make it clearer before the event with impolite/too pushy first-messages and such, but that still leaves all the others. You can go by prior recommendations and block first-timers until they've been vetted, but that cuts down numbers a lot and means lots more effort... I usually find the people you don't want there much are too scared to show up if they've been too pushy online first, or aren't looking to be friendly and get to know people first. They either dont show or show and leave early/don't come back as they don't get what they're after; if anyone bothers anyone hopefully I get told and can tell them off/ask them to leave if they don't behave.

      May 4, 2014

  • Justyna T.

    Darn, can't make it after all. But at least I'll make it to the women's speeddating on the 3rd,

    May 1, 2014

  • AJ

    Opps this clashes with my naked Yoga class this coming Sunday

    April 30, 2014

  • Maz

    Hi Everyone,
    Firstly thanks to the organisers of this group for letting us post. Secondly, we are not a commercial organisation (in the sense that we still need other jobs to pay the rent!), more a small community group who has been providing lesbians with really successful speed dating events and other ways of meeting each other for about 10 years.

    We had alot of requests to try a bisexual/pansexual event so that's exactly what we are doing. Trying it to see if it is financially viable to run without losing money. We've had loads of interest in our Pansexual event but can I ask that if you are interested in having a great night and meeting new dates, please support us by buying your ticket and coming along. Otherwise, we won't be running pansexual events in the future.

    Also, we are currently working out numbers for seating so it would be great if you are coming to keep your response as attending and if your not coming to change it.

    Happy Speed Dating!

    April 24, 2014

  • Maz

    For those a little interested to find out how speed dating works, we make it really easy! When you arrive you will be greeted by myself and our lovely hostesses, so if your braving it alone you won't be alone for long. Most of our speed dating attendees tend to bring a lovely, friendly attitude as everyone is in the same boat. During speed dating you get the option of ticking "friend" or "maybe more". This means that at some events we get some couples who couple up very early on but also if you arrive and there's no one you fancy dating, you still get the option of making some good new friends and who knows - maybe you'll be attracted to one of their friends!

    April 24, 2014

  • Maz

    Hi Ladies and gents,

    Just a quick reminder that if your single and looking to meet friends or maybe a new partner, our EARLYBIRD for our pansexual speed dating at Bar Titania on Sat May 4th closes on TUESDAY. If you haven't got your ticket yet, we normally sell out before the night so make sure you BOOK EARLY!! You can book by paying via paypal to [masked] - £16 before TUESDAY/ £20 after or message me for bank transfer details - text[masked] 300.

    See you all there!

    Maz and the team

    April 24, 2014

  • A former member
    A former member

    This sounds fun!!! ;o)

    1 · April 17, 2014

  • SapphicVine L.

    Can't wait for Pansexual Speed Dating!

    April 17, 2014

  • Maz

    Just a few more weeks until Pansexual Speed Dating / Speed Friend shipping at Bar Titania. CAN'T WAIT!

    Get your tickets before the early bird for just £16 via paypal to [masked] or just email [masked] for bank transfer details.

    See you there!

    1 · April 16, 2014


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