June 6, 2013
Hey Kevin. man, i feel your pain. i can get a second date easily enough, but the third is elusive. i have been single for over 3 years and while some of that was definitely self-imposed, i have tried getting out there. and while i will have a drink now and then, i am too old (38) and have too many kids (2) to hang out at clubs. i am completely burnt out on online dating, but like you, how else do you meet like-minded single people?? hang in there!
Kevin, I just had to relate. I'm 42. 2 long term relationships/marriages and had my very first date ever a few months ago. I think we're supposed to "enjoy the process" but I tell ya, imconsidering spinsterhood as my option lol! The whole thing is mind boggling. Just thought it might help to hear someone relate since I certainly have no pointers. Good luck to you! ;-)
Kevin - Welcome to the group. I would highly suggest that if you are looking to date any female, please upload a different photo that doesn't show your hand gesture. This, to me, gives an impression you are not serious about dating. Based on you information above you seem like a reasonable person who hasn't been in the dating world for awhile and needs help. Please use my suggestion and it might help!