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JoyGasm 101 and LoveClub (JoyGasm Practice Group)

  • Mar 27, 2014 · 6:30 PM

Learn to have a JoyGasm for just $7.  Come for the whole night $35.   Reserve your Spot at

1 hour intro, and 2 hour playshop where you can…

Learn to JoyGasm.  Learn to connect with Orgasmic Bliss on command, for the most Joy and Passion, ever.  
(ESPECIALLY WHEN you’re stressed out and don’t have the time)

My name is Elena Harder  and I want to invite you to come and join us for an evening playshop called “JoyGasm 101 & LoveClub"

Elena Harder

There are TWO parts of this evening, you can join for just the intro or the whole night. 

JoyGasm 101 - Learn to have a JoyGasm. 6:30-7:30

The Science and Pratice of JoyGasmLearn and Explore the first three games from the Magic Hands practiceLearn to connect easily and powerfully with your sensual energy.  You'll be given the tools to gain mastery over your ability to access, amplify, ground into, and play with this energy.  Demo of the techniques solo and partnered. 

You will be guided to connect with your own energy, learning to taste your JoyGasm.  Based in the Spirit of Tantra, and the Science of TED, steeped in the mythology of Christ Consciousness, with a good Helping of Hippie (and a little blasphemy thrown in for good measure).  This is like nothing you've ever 
experienced, and yet strangely beautiful and familiar.  Like coming Home to your Divine Birthright. 

Take a break. Decide if you want to stay for the whole night, or negotiate JG friends for the 2nd half.  

7:30 Love Club is a 2 hour experiential practice dedicated to JoyGasmic Energy and Sensual Play. 

Practice your JoyGasm by yourself, or sharing with another (either with your partner or a new friend). Some guided exercises, and some free play.  

Finally, we will circle up, re-connect with our intentions I release __________, and I step into ____________, and then build up the biggest fount of powerful JoyGasmic energy to send power and truth into those intentions.  Playing in a group VOC till the cows come home.  (VOC = Vortex of Creation, see the FAQ below for more info)

Love Club

A Word About Boundaries at Love Club

This event is outside of our cultural norms.  If you have a spouse, we recomend that you attend together (you'll both thank us)  If your spouse is not interested in attending, we recommend that you discuss the event with them and check in around what your boundaries for touch and connection with another are. For the concerned wives/husbands/partners/boyfriend/girlfriends.  This event is fully clothed, and there is no explicit sexual touch.  All boundaries are respected at all times.  All of the exercises are optional, and everyone is welcome to participate to their Hell Yes, and with respect to their own boundaries.

In general, here's who "JoyGasm and LoveClub" is for . .

You are interested in living a full bodied, pleasurable experience of life, you want more happiness, joy and vitality in your life.  (with more ease and  power)

Parents. Your new flirtatious, happy and passionate sex life will thank you.

LightWorkers, Teachers, Healers, New Agers, Law of Attraction aficionados. (Maybe you’re a Massage Therapist or Body-worker, Yoga Instructor, Tantrika Shamanic Practitioner, Sex Educator, Life-Coach, Meditation Teacher etc.) . .

Mavricks - You're a leading edge mavrick, interested in exploring and challenging the status quo around our social interactions. (us too!) Maybe you’re part of an “Alternative” or sex positive community already.  That makes you a Consciousness Shift Liver (think Hippies, Activists, Burners, Kinksters, LBGT, Tantra, Polyamorists or just open minded.)

You Someone who cares deeply about strong and deep connection to your self, your partner, the earth and feeling connected to the divine.

At its heart, this workshop is all about exploring the question . . .

"How can I feel phenomenal pleasure in my daily life, while still seeming normal?”

Self Expression, and especially of pleasure is frowned upon by our society. Touch and sensual pleasure are reserved for the bedroom, and many of us either don’t have a partner to play with, or our parenting/work/commute/commitments, leave us without any spare energy to get into that sexy place with our partner if we DO have them.

How do you turn most of your waking moments into JoyGasm? How do you find and make time to connect with your  partner, when you’ve got kids,  jobs, businesses, and too much on the go? How do you create space to really express what it is that you need to express? How do you have a JoyGasm without attracting stares?  We will cover all of this and more!!!

While connecting with like-minded people, you'll learn:

The Three Core Practices of MagicHands,  (Breathe, Make Love and Magnetize) and 3 daily 2 minute practices to attract your manifestation faster, create deeper connection with your pleasure/partner. 

The REAL reason why most self help techniques don’t work, (and exactly how MagicHands and your WOC are designed to avoid this simple pitfall.

How your stress can help you connect with your JoyGasm wherever you are.  And how to turn it on AT WILL.How much pleasure you are willing to embody, and where you're limiting yourself in the experience of pleasure in your body. 

My three promises to you

Fun Filled Evening: This event is about you getting to Taste your Joygasm.  Have a lot of fun, laughter and feel a bit naughty and probably a bit sexy. I do everything I can to make sure that your evening is well used, fun, enjoyable and inspiring.  You will leave feeling more energized, empowered and turned on about your life than when you came in.

Safe and Sacred Space to Explore: Our Sensual Space is not something that we often share with others, and so I want to be very clear that your boundaries (whatever they are) will be held safe.  You never have to do anything you don’t want to.  We smudge and use sacred mantras during the VOC, and the connection between sensuality and spirituality is very integral to all the work I do.

So, that’s it. If you have any questions, feel free to email me [masked] otherwise I hope to see you there.

With TONS of LOVE and Light.

Elena Harder

Founder and

p.s. Don't forget to check out your Free I love you’s challenge. You don't even need to sign up for the playshop to get started.  LOVE is yours whether or not you cum... 

pps. Remember to WOC VOC POC and ROLL


Please Arrive at 6:15pm for a prompt 6:30 pm Start time if you are a Virgin.  
Event will run 6:30-7:30.  Break for transitions, if people are leaving.  
And then Continue on in JoyGasmic Bliss untill 9:30pm.

We will be sitting on the floor for most of 3 hours, please bring a pillow, backjack, yoga mat or nest to your preference. (some chairs avaliable, please let us know so we can prepare for you)
Bring a piece of paper on which you have answered these 2 sentances. I release __________________. I step into being ___________________.  
Bring Water.
You may want to bring a journal and pen
All Participants who stay for the whole event will be gifted a MagicHands PlayBook & Keep it Clean Pack.

What People are Saying

I was surprised at how intense it was the first time the enrgy was passed to me. I want to do it again!

Awkward at first, and then just complete surrender.

Curiousty – delight – steamy, delicious
Yumminess – blissed out – completely 
At home in my own skin/body/heart

I would say, if you want to melt inside yourself you should cum. 

Awesome way to be connected to all of us at once!! Facing each other!

Elena, since you took me on that magical walk, life has never been the same. My business is called Constant Creation, I’m always creating new things, since we worked together, it’s gone quantum, and the flow is incredible. You are truly special. Thank you. – L

So many ways to be intimate, both with others and myself. 

It’s the Safest Sex EVER! 

Since attending your party, I keep finding surprise stashes of (forgotten? Universe-gifted?) cash in pockets. Thanks for reconnecting me with manifestation. Love to you! - A

Thanks for a beautiful ceremony last night you're an inspiration. –D

It was incredible - I am so grateful! It was so nice to feel a sense of community again in Calgary! I love you Mighty Ms Elena! - P

Feeling completely loved up and blissed out. – A

A blissful night Thank you Elena another wonderful full moon ceremony, and thank you to all beautiful souls who share your loving energy much love - E

You inspired me today and opened me up to a new facet of my spirit!! That’s never happened before like that. It’s a good thing and I appreciate you!! – T

It took me some courage to ask for help with my sexual energy but my guidance said Elena was the right person to ask. I am glad I did as she was able to in one session awaken the energies of my second chakra and had me feeling more alive then I have felt in awhile. I had really lost touch with this side of myself and now realize it was causing me not to show up fully. She also reminded me how to flirt which has had some exciting results already. ;) - D

Sharing in the Community

JoyGasm is better with a friend. You are Encouraged to Bring a friend to their first event or Sponsor a Ticket for another participant who may not feel they can attend due to financial reasons. I sponsor 2 LC'ers every month, and if you would like to contribute to the community in this way to, please buy an extra ticket or let me know how you can contribute!  If you feel called to attend but aren't sure you can due to finances, please connect with me and we will make arangements. 

If you like my work, me, or the community in general, please share this with someone you think would benefit or enjoy this event! Word of mouth is the best!


Do I just buy an online ticket and show up?

Buy a ticket online.
This way your space is reserved. If $$ is an issue, buy a $7 ticket and the universe will get the rest to you before the event day. These events tend to sell out, and so I can't guarantee you a spot unless you pre-purchase your ticket. And it's easier for me to ensure gender ballance in favor of more women.

I'm curious about love club. And scared! What is the expectation?

It's normal to be scared. The expectation is that you show up, and say yes to the exercises that excite you, and no to anything that you're not wanting to do. Consider coming to a Free Intro to JoyGasm event first.

What if I feel vulnerable?

You will probably feel vulnerable, it's true. Vulnerabiltiy Hangovers Happen (that feeling of OMG I just shared SO much, do they still like me??) I'll go over some techniques to deal with that, and I'll be there to help you if you need support.

What if I want more of a connection there and exploration?

If you want MORE connection, awesome, you can get it, connect outside of the event with other people, or explore more with me one on one. It's a great way to sample the energetic work that I offer, and many people say it's a life changing experience.

What's a VOC?
VOC or Vortex of Creation is a ritual vortex that we play in at the end of our workshops, where we play together in creating more and more energy to powerfill our intentions for ourselves and our evolution. 

What's a WOC?
WOC or Weapon of Consciousness is your smart phone or reminder system for rembering to do your exercises.  Setting 2 minute timers for ourselves, and beautiful calls to consciousness allow us to connect with our highest self more often.  Integrating your learnings through interval training for your soul.  A beautiful symbiosis between man and technology. 

What's a POC?
POC or Portal of Creation.  Is something that happens while you're playing the driving game.

What is Tantra?

Tantra is a spiritual path that integrates body, mind and soul. It’s a path of deep awareness. A path that weaves together heaven and earth, body and spirit, masculine and feminine.

About your Host

Elena Harder

Elena Harder is a JoyGasm Catalyst.  Her mission is keeping parents together,  happy and JoyGasmic, through the first 3 years of their children's lives.  Giving the world powerful and quick tools for living in Embodied JoyGasmic Bliss.  Healing the rift between sensuality and spirituality through the integration of delicious sacred and sensual pleasure into daily life. She loves helping others take charge of their stress response and recognize it for what it is, your single best catalyst to create lasting change.  

Her philosphy: Tasting your JoyGasm is the 30 second solution to the stresses of every day life.  

Using these powerful tools in her own life, she has gone from a daily rollercoaster of emotions in a 5 year abusive relationship, to calm, cool, and full of pleasure as a single mom, entrepreneur & participant in daily traffic gridlock.   She stands as a Vision of Love and Light, inviting you to live your true self, and love yourself more than you ever thought possible. 

A 3 hour playshop where you can…

Taste your JoyGasm. <3

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  • angel

    You guys are in the downstairs studio..

    March 26, 2014

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